Become Self-Sufficient in Reversing Suffering

Explore Your Options for KI Support & Mentorship

Our shift to mentorship doesn’t mean we’ve stopped offering facilitation. Instead, it means we’re committed to equipping you with the tools to free yourself from the shackles of repression in everyday life.

Our approach is groundbreaking. It may seem radical, but so is repression. Repression permeates every aspect of our being, often outside of conscious awareness. Our findings align with neuroscience, which shows that at least 95% of our brain activity is unconscious.

Here’s a breakdown of our support and mentorship offerings:

1. KI Support Sessions: Ideal for those new to somatic inquiry, or seeking extra guidance, these sessions help you experience the transformative power of KI and address specific areas where you feel stuck. 

   >>> Click here to find out more about KI Support Sessions

2. Mentorship Discovery Kit: Begin your journey with a comprehensive one-week introduction. This kit includes access to our six-part Somatic Testing Series, a personalized 1:1 mentorship session, and follow-up support with your mentor.

   >>> Click here to discover more about the Mentorship Discovery Kit

3. Mentorship Subscription: Dive into personalized 1:1 mentorship aimed at mastering the KI tools and reversing repression! Enjoy a monthly subscription with a 10% discount available for a six-month commitment.

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4. KI Mentorship Sessions: For those needing additional support beyond the sessions already included within your Mentorship Subscription, we’ve got you covered! None of us have been able to reverse repression with sessions only, but none of us have done it alone either.

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Book your complimentary Clarity Call today!

Below is a list of NRFS Mentors available for our Support and Mentorship offerings. To learn more about a Mentor, click the button below the picture.

But wait, there’s more! Our complimentary Clarity Calls allow you to explore our approach and find the perfect mentor. These 15-minute calls with an NRFS Mentor enable you to ask burning questions, understand our Kiloby Inquiry tools and approach, and determine if a Mentor resonates with your needs and goals.

Booking your clarity call is just a few clicks away! Simply select your preferred Mentor by clicking the ‘Book a Call’ button on their profile pop-up page. Then, enter your name and email and click “Book Your Call.” From there, you can select your preferred date and time and schedule your clarity call (please double-check your time zone before booking).

Scott Kiloby

Dan McLintock

Ina Backbier

Toshi Matsunaga

Serena Senteshi

Frequently Asked Questions

1D: This is the dimension where we rest as awareness, notice what is present, and allow what arises into present awareness. It covers many mindfulness-based practices. There is no prompting of unconscious programming, such as shadows and deficiency stories.

2D: This dimension goes beyond resting as awareness, as we prompt up programming and witness that programming. The roots of repression work lie in this dimension, though this work alone doesn’t go to the root of suffering. Processing remains at the level of identities including shadows and deficiency stories.

3D: This dimension contains the heart of repression work, where we make conscious unconscious deeply buried programming by bringing it into awareness through aligning of mind-body connection.

We suggest setting aside approximately 2 hours to adequately prepare for this work. It’s beneficial to find a quiet environment with minimal distractions.

Setting up for somatic testing is a breeze: No equipment is necessary ;-). However, we recommend having a pencil and paper, a journal, or your phone handy to record the results of the tests. Please ensure to share these results with your Mentor before your first session.

Absolutely! Recording your session is encouraged as it can aid in integrating the work.

You can send your Mentor a Voice Message once or twice a week for an exchange.
Please limit your messages to a maximum of 3 minutes long.
If it’s a two-step question, record two quick messages, so your Mentor can record two answers.
Remember that WhatsApp support isn’t there to verbal process, it’s there to ask specific questions.
You can expect a reply usually within 48 hours on weekdays.
If your Mentor missed your message and you’re not getting a timely reply, just ping them, to make your message pop to the top!

You will get triggered. That is not necessarily a bad thing. Triggers are your tickets to freedom, and you will learn how during our mentorship subscription. While we invite and encourage you to do self-inquiry and explore the root of your triggers, your Mentor and possibly a Mentorship Assistant will support you when necessary. Your Mentor and the assigned Mentorship Assistant will be your contact for all issues around triggers that arise during mentorship.

Our services are non-refundable.

Scott Kiloby is a noted international speaker, well-respected enlightenment (nonduality) teacher who has helped thousands of people all over the world, an entrepreneur, creative spirit, and a prolific author of seven books that simplify and demystify authentic spiritual awakening as it is taught in the East.

Scott has broken new ground in a number of areas, including being the co-founder and owner of the first two treatment centers in the U.S. to focus primarily on mindfulness and nondual awareness as the central path to freedom in recovery, the Kiloby Center for Recovery (day treatment) and the Natural Rest House (24-hour care facility).

Scott is an innovator in the addiction field, which for decades has shamed, judged, punished, and instilled fear into clients to keep them clean (with a relatively low success rate). After studying that archaic model, Scott developed the New Model of Recovery which contains a zero-tolerance for shaming, judging, or punishing people whether they are using or not.

Instead, Scott focuses on showing people unconditional love and using the Kiloby Inquiries to heal their pain that drives the addiction in the first place. This has been the central key to the success of Scott’s work.

Scott’s work is in no way limited to addiction recovery. Scott is also the developer of several forms of inquiry that help people with a wide array of human suffering other than addiction such as trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, OCD, and general unhappiness with life by teaching them to live in the present moment instead of “in their heads.”

Scott’s work is considered to be on the innovative edge of enlightenment teachings and in the recovery and trauma world.
"Working with Dan has been nothing short of transformational. His open heart, honesty about his personal experience and permission to be real and not hide have helped me unlock those qualities in myself. And that has been a total game changer. I've been truly blessed, not only to have him as my KI Facilitator, but also as my mentor. Without a doubt, working with him has helped me to show up authentically, helped sharpen my tools and made me a better facilitator than I would've been on my own. I can't recommend him enough."
Darby Totten
Certified KI Facilitator

Dan McLintock is a Certified Facilitator, Trainer and the Co-Developer of the Kiloby Inquiries method/approach the New Model of Recovery along w Scott Kiloby. 

A Jacksonville, Florida native, Dan graduated Flagler College in 2004 with B.A. in Theatre Arts and English Literature and has played music professionally in bands for over 20 years. But his true passion lies in sharing the context, possibility and practicality of healing, awakening and release. 

Dan has worked one-on-one with clients in and out of the Kiloby Center since 2017 and has an unconditionally loving and earnest approach to healing trauma, dissolving the drivers of addiction/suffering and unhooking long-held toxic beliefs about ourselves, others and the world at large. 

He’s also worked intensively, side-by-side with Scott Kiloby for the past three years to develop the transformative tools of the Kiloby Inquiries as well as the principles and approach of the “New Model of Recovery” rooted in unconditional love and non-judgment. Much of this approach was borne out of Scott and Dan’s work with each other on their own personal traumas as well as their work with clients at the Kiloby Center. 

Scott and Dan have simplified, demystified and condensed some of the principles and practices of eastern/non-dual spirituality into an easily accessible set of tools most anyone can understand, learn and utilize to free themselves from their own suffering. 

I am a certified KI Facilitator as well as a trained psychotherapist (transpersonal psychology). I am offering facilitation sessions in English and Dutch (I also have an intermediate level of fluency in German and French).

A perfect storm and health crisis became the catalyst for my healing journey and deep dive into trauma and repression over 12 years ago. Though I have been trained in a wide variety of mind-body healing modalities, I have not earlier come across a more powerful, laser-sharp and comprehensive set of somatic inquiry tools as the Kiloby Inquiries which I use for myself and my clients on a daily basis. These tools are designed to bring into consciousness all our programming and reverse the core drivers of our suffering: unconscious energetic and emotional repression.

I am wildly passionate about somatic inquiry, as even when the process can stir up really difficult feelings (those that our individual system represses), each time, I have gained deeper levels of trust in my body and my direct experience and ultimately gained a profound sense of aliveness, joy and freedom.

Holding a safe space for others and guiding them as they navigate their inner world when experiencing painful challenges in their life and witnessing the depth of liberation in them is filling my heart with love and joy, and a profound sense of purpose.

Hello, my name is Toshi Matsunaga.

I discovered KI in the midst of my own experience with physical and emotional pain – since using KI to meet the part of myself that was always there, just hidden by trauma and repression, my love for this work has grown exponentially and I have no greater passion or love than that of facilitating KI sessions for others trying to navigate an often painful and challenging human life. I am now a very experienced facilitator, helping to have developed the latest repression, 3rd dimension work tools and 3rd dimension map alongside Scott and Dan, I am also experienced in training and certifying individuals to become experienced KI facilitators, up to the Green Check Mark Level.

I have a passion to take people beyond the need to heal, or need to be ok.

By taking responsibility for our suffering, freedom & choice can re-enter our lives once again. Bringing everything to the table to be inquired into, which includes all identities, stories and beliefs. Making our unconscious conscious, with no exceptions. We might not see that this is what we want until we start to uncover the beliefs & programs that block our natural recovery. These begin to arise when we become more conscious of our programs (emotional repressions, beliefs, traumas, to name a few) that have been running our lives. Along the way we will start to see who we really are, everything and nothing at the same time, the true embodiment of what and who we are.

There is so much beauty in discovering what lies beyond our darkest stories and repressed emotions. When they are returned to Awareness we come home!

I have experience working with: emotional repression, addiction, chronic pain, physical abuse, racial abuse, sexual abuse, sexual repression, depression, PTSD, cPTSD, birth trauma, spiritual seeking, past life trauma and non-dual bypass.

I have been doing the repression work on anger, shame, and fear on myself. As the repressions started to lift, I have started to experience major changes in the way I interact, perceive and experience life, in a way I never knew possible under repression. And my relationship with people around me has changed dramatically, especially with my family members. By doing emotional repression work, I also found that my frequent stomach pain and mouth ulcers were connected to and caused by the repression of emotions. After 6 months of doing the work, the pain and strong contraction are now almost gone (only occasional contraction). The mouth ulcer hasn’t come back in a very long time.

I never knew I could trust and love my body as much as I do now. The body remembered everything for me even though I was busy trying to forget and run away from certain emotions, contractions, and pains. My darkest secrets, scariest memories, deepest anger, loneliest moments… I’m learning to now see that the contraction/pain are like gifts that my body saved for me, rediscovering again on this mysterious journey called life. And they are like gifts because seeing them for what they really are, it brings me back to who I really am.

I was born and raised in Osaka, Japan. At the age of 11, I was sent to England to go to a free school called Summerhill founded by A.S. Neill. The school gave me time to really explore and learn how to be with myself. I have learned what freedom means and also to live freely comes with great responsibilities at a young age. Since then I have been living in the UK up until the present moment.

Throughout my life, I was always curious to find out who or what we really are as human beings. So, my search for truth started with a few spiritual books and then moved on to sitting with many great teachers. I have tried many different practices (Non-duality, Advaita, ACIM, Vipassana, Mindfulness, Zen, etc.) and sat with many teachers (Adyashanti, Rupert Spira, Aisha Salem, Jeff Foster, Mooji, Ayuka Mizoguchi, etc.) After a series of awakening experiences and somatic embodiment work, I have started to live from and abide in my true nature/awareness/presence more and more.

However, somedays I will sit and be with a contraction/pain in my body for hours or days sometimes, and when it did eventually fall away (or not), there was a feeling of inefficiency and there was a sense that something was not quite right and that I’m missing something completely regarding the way I was experiencing bodily sensations. That’s when I started to watch Scott’s videos on KI and I started to inquire into the body. This changed everything, I could clearly see how I was blinded by just abiding in awareness even if I was being with sensations, I was not inquiring into them so the thoughts that were trapped in them could not be seen. Especially the repressed emotions, I was completely blind to them from the non- dual awareness. Also, I began to see and catch that abiding in awareness and letting “everything be as it is” was somehow helping the repressed emotions be repressed further. And that the repressed contractions/pain do not come up by themselves to be seen in awareness because the idea of letting “everything be as it is” kept them hidden below the surface.

I join the KI facilitator training program which really gave me the time to dive in and uncover my repressed anger and shame. And also discovered my spiritual bypass that was happening throughout my seeking life. Especially after the so- called spiritual liberation, where it was really easy for me to be stuck and hide in the awareness as an identity.

Serena is a professional KI Facilitator and Trainer who has been assisting people worldwide for over 13 years and she is deeply dedicated to this work. She has 4+ years experience in the Kiloby
Inquiries, 10+ years in awareness-based self-inquiry (advaita non-duality), 12+ years as a coach,
kinesiologist and yoga, meditation & massage therapist, in addition to other integrating and healing methods, such as: Dr. Gabor Mate (Compassionate Inquiry), Peter A. Levine (Somatic Experiencing), Bessel Van Der Kolk (trauma healing), John E. Sarno, Bert Hellinger (Family Constellation Method), 5Rhythms, Somatic Release, Osho meditations, Reiki, LomiLomi massage therapy, Integrating energy works & Shamanic tools, and so on.

She specializes in emotional repression, chronic pain, all kinds of traumas (also preverbal, birth, past life, inter- and transgenerational, developmental, abandonment, etc.), physical and sexual abuse, addiction, relationship and sexuality, anxiety, PTSD, c-PTSD, ADHD, OCD, and nervous system regulation.

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I think I can say that I am a person who, thanks to KI’s somatic processing method, was able to finally mature from a girl to a woman and grow up, to find her inner self and her path in life. Of course, this is an ongoing internal process and natural growth, which continues today…

As a little girl, I lived a very simple life. I grew up in a small town near the capital of Hungary, where my everyday life was mostly influenced by the present moment and the observation and admiration of life. I loved observing and feeling the vibrancy and manifestation of life through people and nature. This deep love and feeling for things brought me great joy. At the same time, I had to face the suffering that can come with the repression of this life very early on: in the first half of my life, unfortunately, I had to experience a lot of emotional, physical and sexual violence. These experiences are what caused me to close down and repress myself, and my emotions, and to some extent lose my faith and trust in people, myself, and life.

It is this period full of traumas, this closure, and decades of deep emotional and self-repression that made everyday life unbearable by the time I was 32: chronic physical illnesses with excruciating pain, mental health problems (chronic anxiety and attention deficit disorder), chronic fatigue, depression, aimlessness, recurring relationship and financial problems made my everyday life difficult, and at that time even the most basic tasks were a huge challenge for me. Of course, I tried to help myself with all the presence and knowledge I had after 12 years of advaita inquiry and non-dual awareness, not to mention several years of individual and group therapy. But I couldn’t really get to the root of my trauma and self-repression with any of them.

That’s when I met Scott. Immediately I knew we were on the same wavelength. It felt like meeting an old friend again. As he introduced me to KI more and more, I fell in love with this method. It worked immediately and my love and enthusiasm have grown unstoppably every day to this day. As it became a part of my daily practice and consciousness, I felt better emotionally and in my body. Joy, lightness, playfulness, trust, and last but not least, femininity and self-expression returned to my life gradually. 

Also, I feel that through my own process and transformation, I have gained a very deep understanding and skills of the KI tools and a profound inner intuitive sense of myself and others on a human level. And that’s what I use in individual sessions and in my KI facilitator training, along with unconditional love and compassion. And since one of the most important keys to KI is mastering the method in order to become more and more skilled in self-facilitation, I have always focused on the transmission and teaching of these tools we’ve been developing with our team. Since one of the most effective ways to do this is facilitator training (regardless of whether you want to get certification or not), I will withdraw from giving individual sessions in the future and will focus only on training.

I wish you to experience the results of somatic processing and coming out of emotional and self-repression: that regardless of external circumstances, you can always feel free, safe, loved, and complete within yourself.

Because only you can give this to yourself, no one else. ;)

Hope to see you soon and work together.

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What is a Clarity Call?

A clarity call is a free 30-minute introductory call with a Certified KI Facilitator. During a clarity call, you can ask any questions you have about KI and see whether a particular facilitator is a good fit for you.

To book a clarity call, select your preferred facilitator (hover over their picture and click the “Meet” button). Then, enter your email and click “Book Your Call.” From there, you’ll be able to select your preferred date and time and schedule your clarity call (please double-check your time zone before booking).

Valerie Vinger is a thriving survivor of life’s painful challenges and growth opportunities. She has worked with 12-step programs and is currently a 13-year stage-III cancer survivor. Her cancer recovery journey started with the traditional “cut, poison, burn” approach but eventually led her down a natural path to healing her body, her pain and suffering, and her buried emotions.

Valerie first stumbled upon Scott Kiloby at a workshop of his in Boulder, Colorado in 2012, which she says is one of the most transformative experiences she’s ever had. She is filled with gratitude for the person she has become through her journey with cancer recovery and with the Inquiries, which she describes as “coming home to myself.” She loves working with people who are ready for relief from their pain and suffering.

Julianne Eanniello is a Certified Trainer and Facilitator of both the Kiloby Inquiries and the Unfindability Inquiries (formerly called the Living Inquiries). She is also a Certified TRE Practitioner, and the developer of the somatic movement process called Natural Flow Movement. She works with clients all over the world on virtually any topic, including spiritual seeking, stress, anxiety, depression, pain and health related issues, traumatic experiences, repression, relationship issues, and general unhappiness with ourselves and our lives. She does this through online sessions, deepening courses, workshops and facilitator certification training.

About Julianne:

For most of my life I’ve wondered who I am and why I am here. As I was growing up, no one else seemed to be talking about these things, or even thinking about them, so I buried it deep inside and tried my best to fit in the way I was “supposed” to, all the while feeling like there was something desperately wrong with me and that I needed to fix it.

In my early thirties, the death of a young relative left me feeling hopeless and helpless, wondering what is the point of life if we’re all just going to die anyway? This launched me on a search. I didn’t even know what I was looking for, I just knew that there was a longing – a desperate longing for something that actually made sense about life. I learned several alternative spiritual and healing techniques. I meditated. I read books and watched videos. I eventually learned of non-duality teachings, and I read more books, watched more videos, and even sat with several ‘awakened’ teachers. Yet I was still searching, something still felt missing. I was looking for the key that would unlock the mystery of me and of life.

In my early forties, I developed a chronic health condition that left me unable to work for several years, and most days barely able to get out of bed due to extreme fatigue, brain fog and pain. I lost my banking job, and eventually lost my home. I saw a multitude of doctors to try to find out what was wrong with me, and used every tool in my metaphysical and alternative medicine toolkit to try to heal myself. My seeking became even more intense, and I was looking for a way to escape my pain.

In 2009, I met Scott Kiloby. Since I started working with him and doing the Living Inquiries, the seeking for enlightenment has stopped, and the question of ‘who am I’ is no longer relevant. My victim stories around my health started falling away. Once I started looking at my experience through inquiry, everything changed. I stopped chasing something ‘out there.’ I no longer seek some future state of happiness or peace. This is not to say that I don’t have problems, or ever experience pain. Quite the contrary. I still use the inquiries regularly, and now there is much less avoidance or resistance to what I’m experiencing. I experience more and more freedom in the present moment, exactly as it appears.

Having trained with Scott, I was one of the first to be certified as a Senior Living Inquiries Facilitator and Trainer in early 2012. In 2014, I moved to CA and became a business partner with Scott at The Kiloby Center for Recovery, where we worked with people suffering from addiction, anxiety, depression and more for the next 8 years.

I can’t imagine my life without these inquiries. They saved me from myself. If you are still suffering, searching, longing… I encourage you to give this a try.

As a young child I saw a picture of Jesus gazing lovingly at some children around his feet. I immediately longed for the unconditional love I saw in his gaze. At the same time, I was being read fairy tales, like Cinderella, and came to believe that romantic love would satisfy that longing for love.

So, I married my handsome prince at age 19. But then, by age 29, I found myself alone, as a single mother, with four young children. I was devastated and convinced that something was terribly wrong with me, to have ended up in such a predicament. 

I had learned to love and please others, but not how to love and respect myself. I was a “good girl,” and repressed my urges to have my own needs acknowledged and met. A wise teacher later told me, “We need to love everyone, including ourselves.” This was an amazing revelation for me!

Learning to meditate helped immensely to bring moments of peace, while I was sitting still, though I was still being triggered regularly in my relationships. Finally, the Kiloby Inquiries taught me how to turn my attention inside in daily life – towards the trapped thoughts and emotions I’d been running from – so that I could face and release them. It was like some tender, lost children began coming home, to take their rightful place in my inner world. 

I am honored and excited to be able to facilitate these wonderful inquiries for others.

Sumitra lives in Eugene, Oregon, US.  She has four grown children and six grandchildren. For many years she lived and worked in a yoga retreat community in California, and has taught yoga, meditation and Compassionate Communication in addition to facilitating the tools of the Kiloby Inquiries (since 2013).

Working with compulsions – especially regarding food – is a special interest for Sumitra. 

She also loves working with couples and others with relationship challenges in a simple deep listening practice that allows each person to be truly heard and acknowledged.

Kiloby Inquiries all dimension certified trainer & facilitator ✅.  


I am a non bypassing non-dual teacher with 13 years of direct experience. Waking up and abiding in our true nature was not enough. Some unconscious repressed fear was debilitating my expression for years. Stepping into the power of my voice fully was only possible with KI. In 2020 signing up to KI training with Scott and Dan changed the trajectory and the quality of my life and work. I released loads of repressed shame and anger from my system and now am able to let live manifest and express effortlessly. And I know you can live and be the fullest free expression of YOU!


I am so passionate about this method of deprograming & embodiment that I am here to inspire others to experience it for themselves. These tools and my perseverance in experimenting with them brought effortlessness, ease in the unknown, financial abundance, freedom of expression, burst of creativity and such a fulfilling work environment, where everyone is honoring integrity, authenticity and inner deepening. I’ve learned so much from all my fellow trainees and clients, it’s been such a privilege to hold space and witness their growth and transformation. I’ve been training in KI with Scott and on my own since 2021 and now so excited to train all dimensions training for full immersion in this work. 


I have experience working with: parents and children, childhood trauma, repression of voice/power/expression, non-dual bypassing, spiritual seeking, emotional repression, addiction, chronic pain, abuse, sexual abuse, sexual repression, depression, PTSD, birth trauma mother and baby, grief and loss, couples counseling, lack and scarcity mindset. 


I can help you move beyond suffering and fear into the world more fully with your gifts, authenticity and uniqueness recognizing your unbroken, true nature. 

Alec Rodrigues has been certified to facilitate inquiry since 2015 and brings a keen sense of intuition to his work. He believes that in connection, the deepest healing takes place, that the mirror of relationship is the best crucible for transformation. Through rest and inquiry, Alec has found the empowerment to meet others authentically and stop running so damn fast from the seeming “ordinariness” of life.

He currently lives in Washington state with his girlfriend and works as a training assistant for the KI Personal Mentorship Program, where he empowers enrollees by teaching them the KI tools.