Personal Mentorship & Facilitator Certification Program

Small-Group Format with Darby

"The new program is devoted to mentorship and your own deepening so you will have that foundation in place and then you can add on training to become a Certified Facilitator at the end. You can divide payments up that way too. I think this is probably the best program we've created so far in that it has a very comprehensive mentor program built into it with the option of becoming a Certified Facilitator."
Scott Kiloby
Co-Developer, the Kiloby Inquiries

Join Darby and four other participants in this brand-new version of The Personal Mentorship and Certified Facilitator Training Program! Learn the tools experientially and forge deep connections in an intimate small group setting.

The Kiloby Inquiries contain an important element of teaching people to abide in the peace and clarity of the present moment. In addition, KI contains tools that have the ability to bring up to the surface unconscious stories, beliefs, traumas and repressed emotions that help clear the somatic body, making it easier to live in presence.

Through their personal practice together, and their work with clients at the Kiloby Center for Recovery, Scott Kiloby and Dan McLintock created these effective tools. The Kiloby Inquiries pair the age old practice of self-inquiry with practical, accessible, and evidence-based methods of grounding in the present moment. Inquiry allows us to unearth the fears, beliefs, and deficiency stories that drive suffering in its many forms.

Small Group Personal Mentorship May Be Right for You If...

  • You are interested in deepening your personal self-support skills
  • You are interested in working with others and becoming a facilitator
  • You are interested in developing inquiry skills to work with your partner, friends or family
  • You are interested in incorporating the Kiloby Inquiries into your current therapeutic models or coaching with existing clients

Small Group Personal Mentorship Includes:

Personal Mentorship

  • 100+ Page Manual
  • 26 Hours of Training Videos and Core Curriculum Essentials 
  • 14 Hours of Training Videos and Supplemental Curriculum Extras
  • 12 Weekly 2 Hour Small Group Meetings with Darby
  • 2 One on One Sessions with Darby


Certified Facilitator Training

  • 58+ Page Manual
  • 16+ Hours of Training Videos and Core Curriculum Essentials 
  • 7 Weekly 2 Hour Small Group Meetings with Darby
  • 1 One on One Sessions with Darby
  • 3 Hours Allowed for the Evaluation Process

About the Training & Client Testimonials

What You'll Learn

Module 1

  • Development of The Kiloby Inquiries
  • About Training
  • Natural Rest – Portals to Presence
  • Balance between Rest & Inquiry
  • Expect Resistance
  • The Discovery Period
  • NOW Process


Module 2

  • The Velcro Effect
  • Words & Pictures
  • Simple Inquiry
  • Boomerang
  • Deficiency Stories
  • Panorama
  • Collage

Module 3

  • Reverse Inquiry
  • Sweeping Reverse inquiries
  • Utility Inquiry – The Ego Structure
  • List of Utilities
  • Metaphysical Hands
  • The Dance & Resistance
  • Thank You Phrase
  • Forgiveness Phrase
  • Make it Stay

Module 4

  • Mining
  • Untethering Contractions
  • Focus Shifting
  • Tracing
  • Kiloby Clearing Method
  • Learn by Practicing

Module 5

  • Tier 1 & Tier 2 Tools
  • Tapping for Skillful Observation
  • Tracking & Focus Shifting
  • Let it Feel True
  • Weaving
  • Freedom is in Neutrality
  • Unconditional Love and KI
  • NMOR Introduction

Module 6

  • Self Inquiry with Scott, Dan and Participant
  • Self Inquiry – Small Group Inquiry with June
  • Self Inquiry Tools List with June
  • Self Inquiry with Alec (Includes Tools Flowchart)
  • DEMO- Self-Facilitation with KI – Alina
  • DEMO- Self Inquiry (Real Time Looking) with Alina & June
  • DEMO- Self Inquiry with June and Darby
  • DEMO- Self Inquiry Explained: Boomerang, RI and UI – Darby and June

Module 7

  • Trigger Worksheet – (Real Time Recording)
  • Projection and Transference Introduction
  • Reinforcing the Vulnerable Self- inadvertently
  • Self Support – Not being Dependent
  • Self Support- Peer Support
  • Rest, Inquire & Enjoy Life
  • Importance of Self Care
  • Nervous System Regulation with Angela

Module 8 

  • 3-2-1 Shadow Process 
  • Facilitation Following 3-2-1 Shadow Process 
  • Enneagram
  • New Model
  • Self-Inquiry in Day to Day Life
  • Extra Videos & Demos
  • Deprogram your Suffering – Velcro and Identity 
  • From Division to Oneness 
  • Guided Natural Rest
  • Facilitation Demos
  • Self-Facilitation with KI
  • Ending Sessions with Natural Rest 

PLUS Video KI facilitation Demos

Pages of Extra curricular reading for deeper integration and freedom

Module 9

  • The Discovery Period when working with others
  • Discovery Period with Scott
  • Simple Inquiry – Working with Others
  • Context
  • Let if Flow
  • Can’t Give what you Don’t Have
  • Learn by Practicing
  • Working with Others – Confusion
  • Working with Others – Somatic Tools
  • Working with Others- If you Get Lost
  • Fear of Working with Others
  • Facilitator Self Doubt
  • Facilitator Bias
  • Reverse Inquiry as a Facilitator
  • Fear of Reverse Inquiry and Utility Inquiry

Module 10 

  • Readiness. Resistance, Diagnoses & No Agenda
  • How to Apply Nervous System Regulation when working with Others
  • Historical Trigger Inventory- For Facilitators
  • Coping & Defense Mechanisms
  • Projections, Transference and Countertransference when working with Others
  • The Vulnerable Self when working with others
  • Deconstructing the Inner Child

Module 11

  • Assessments when working with others with Kate Brady
  • Attachment Styles
  • Resourcing Pendulation & Titration – when working with others
  • Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs – when working with others
  • Emergency Measures- Self Regulation Document
  • Assessing Suicidal Risk- Steps to take
  • Trigger Sheets Overview
  • Trigger Sheet – Detailed
  • KI Community Resources and Referral Options within KI
  • Additional Resources outside of KI 
  • The Certification and Evaluation Process

Program Components

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The next small group program begins as soon as we have 4 trainees.

This program is currently at full capacity. We are planning to release more small group programs in the coming months.  Please enter your email address below to join our waiting list for those programs. 

Frequently Asked Questions

The Small Group Personal Mentorship Program will consist of one Training Assistant (Alina Panteleev) and 4 Participants. The number of participants in the Facilitator Training portion of the program will depend on how many decide to move into that training.   

You don’t have to install the zoom app in order to attend the Meetings, but you might want to do that in order to practice with it. There will be one link that you will use every week to attend. There are some steps you can take before the Program begins to ensure a smooth Zoom experience. It is always better to hardwire your computer to your modem so that is something you can work on in advance. It is always best to close out all applications and web browsers that might interfere with the Zoom Connection.

All of the meetings will be recorded, and links to these recordings will be sent to program participants via email.

Once you have completed the Personalized Mentorship Program, you can decide if you want to move on to the Facilitator Training. While learning the tools, all participants will be together in a Small Group for 2 hours per week. 

The Personal Mentorship Program is specifically focused on personal work, with an emphasis on self-inquiry. If you are not interested in learning to facilitate others, please do not enroll in the Certified Facilitator Training or the Combined Program.

The Trainees that plan to become Certified Facilitators will start practicing facilitation skills. The Personalized Mentorship participants will be able to act as clients for the practice sessions which will help them with personal growth and getting more familiar with the KI Tools. Everyone will learn Self Inquiry, Small Group Inquiry and Real Time Looking which can be practiced as well.

If you sign up for both programs upfront, then more attention will be given to helping you understand how to use the tools for your personal work as well as when working with others.  If you plan on working with others, it will be an advantage to decide that upfront because you will get more training focused on working with others even during the Personal Mentorship Part of the Program.

Personalized Mentorship Program Payment Options: 

  • One Time Payment: $1,299 or 
  • Payment Plan: 3 Monthly Payments of $450.00

 

Certified Facilitator Add on (for those that choose to wait)

  • One Time Payment $1,229 or
  • Payment Plan: 3 Monthly Payments of $425.00

 

Personalized Mentorship Program + Certified Facilitator Training Payment Options: 

  • One Time Payment: $2,499.00 or 
  • Payment Plan: 5 Monthly Payments of $525
You will sign up and make your first payment and then the monthly payments will be automatically charged to the same card.

Training will take place online via Zoom. The Training will take place in a Small Group Setting on Zoom which meets once a week. The day and time will be determined by the group before the program starts. You will also receive One on One Facilitated Sessions with your Training Assistant – Alina Panteleev.

After the 12 weekly personal mentorship meetings, the small groups will shift their focus to facilitator training, and the practice period begins. During this time, you will be placed into a private group with trainees from other KI training groups. You are expected to practice until you feel comfortable being evaluated for certification. Your Training Assistant will work with you and move with you through the Certification Evaluation Process.  

KI Certified Facilitators may apply to be listed in the Certified Facilitator Directory on Kiloby.com.  They may also apply for available positions at the Kiloby Center for Recovery and any future centers to be opened around the country. They may also work in private practice using these methods or simply use them for their own growth and development as well as with loved ones.

"Working with Dan has been nothing short of transformational. His open heart, honesty about his personal experience and permission to be real and not hide have helped me unlock those qualities in myself. And that has been a total game changer. I've been truly blessed, not only to have him as my KI Facilitator, but also as my mentor. Without a doubt, working with him has helped me to show up authentically, helped sharpen my tools and made me a better facilitator than I would've been on my own. I can't recommend him enough."
Darby Totten
Certified KI Facilitator

Dan McLintock is a Certified Facilitator, Trainer and the Co-Developer of the Kiloby Inquiries method/approach the New Model of Recovery along w Scott Kiloby. 

A Jacksonville, Florida native, Dan graduated Flagler College in 2004 with B.A. in Theatre Arts and English Literature and has played music professionally in bands for over 20 years. But his true passion lies in sharing the context, possibility and practicality of healing, awakening and release. 

Dan has worked one-on-one with clients in and out of the Kiloby Center since 2017 and has an unconditionally loving and earnest approach to healing trauma, dissolving the drivers of addiction/suffering and unhooking long-held toxic beliefs about ourselves, others and the world at large. 

He’s also worked intensively, side-by-side with Scott Kiloby for the past three years to develop the transformative tools of the Kiloby Inquiries as well as the principles and approach of the “New Model of Recovery” rooted in unconditional love and non-judgment. Much of this approach was borne out of Scott and Dan’s work with each other on their own personal traumas as well as their work with clients at the Kiloby Center. 

Scott and Dan have simplified, demystified and condensed some of the principles and practices of eastern/non-dual spirituality into an easily accessible set of tools most anyone can understand, learn and utilize to free themselves from their own suffering. 

What is a Clarity Call?

What is a Clarity Call?

A clarity call is a free 30-minute introductory call with a Certified KI Facilitator. During a clarity call, you can ask any questions you have about KI and see whether a particular facilitator is a good fit for you.

To book a clarity call, select your preferred facilitator (hover over their picture and click the “Meet” button). Then, enter your email and click “Book Your Call.” From there, you’ll be able to select your preferred date and time and schedule your clarity call (please double-check your time zone before booking).

Valerie Vinger is a thriving survivor of life’s painful challenges and growth opportunities. She has worked with 12-step programs and is currently a 13-year stage-III cancer survivor. Her cancer recovery journey started with the traditional “cut, poison, burn” approach but eventually led her down a natural path to healing her body, her pain and suffering, and her buried emotions.

Valerie first stumbled upon Scott Kiloby at a workshop of his in Boulder, Colorado in 2012, which she says is one of the most transformative experiences she’s ever had. She is filled with gratitude for the person she has become through her journey with cancer recovery and with the Inquiries, which she describes as “coming home to myself.” She loves working with people who are ready for relief from their pain and suffering.

Julianne Eanniello is a Certified Trainer and Facilitator of both the Kiloby Inquiries and the Unfindability Inquiries (formerly called the Living Inquiries). She is also a Certified TRE Practitioner, and the developer of the somatic movement process called Natural Flow Movement. She works with clients all over the world on virtually any topic, including spiritual seeking, stress, anxiety, depression, pain and health related issues, traumatic experiences, repression, relationship issues, and general unhappiness with ourselves and our lives. She does this through online sessions, deepening courses, workshops and facilitator certification training.

About Julianne:

For most of my life I’ve wondered who I am and why I am here. As I was growing up, no one else seemed to be talking about these things, or even thinking about them, so I buried it deep inside and tried my best to fit in the way I was “supposed” to, all the while feeling like there was something desperately wrong with me and that I needed to fix it.

In my early thirties, the death of a young relative left me feeling hopeless and helpless, wondering what is the point of life if we’re all just going to die anyway? This launched me on a search. I didn’t even know what I was looking for, I just knew that there was a longing – a desperate longing for something that actually made sense about life. I learned several alternative spiritual and healing techniques. I meditated. I read books and watched videos. I eventually learned of non-duality teachings, and I read more books, watched more videos, and even sat with several ‘awakened’ teachers. Yet I was still searching, something still felt missing. I was looking for the key that would unlock the mystery of me and of life.

In my early forties, I developed a chronic health condition that left me unable to work for several years, and most days barely able to get out of bed due to extreme fatigue, brain fog and pain. I lost my banking job, and eventually lost my home. I saw a multitude of doctors to try to find out what was wrong with me, and used every tool in my metaphysical and alternative medicine toolkit to try to heal myself. My seeking became even more intense, and I was looking for a way to escape my pain.

In 2009, I met Scott Kiloby. Since I started working with him and doing the Living Inquiries, the seeking for enlightenment has stopped, and the question of ‘who am I’ is no longer relevant. My victim stories around my health started falling away. Once I started looking at my experience through inquiry, everything changed. I stopped chasing something ‘out there.’ I no longer seek some future state of happiness or peace. This is not to say that I don’t have problems, or ever experience pain. Quite the contrary. I still use the inquiries regularly, and now there is much less avoidance or resistance to what I’m experiencing. I experience more and more freedom in the present moment, exactly as it appears.

Having trained with Scott, I was one of the first to be certified as a Senior Living Inquiries Facilitator and Trainer in early 2012. In 2014, I moved to CA and became a business partner with Scott at The Kiloby Center for Recovery, where we worked with people suffering from addiction, anxiety, depression and more for the next 8 years.

I can’t imagine my life without these inquiries. They saved me from myself. If you are still suffering, searching, longing… I encourage you to give this a try.

As a young child I saw a picture of Jesus gazing lovingly at some children around his feet. I immediately longed for the unconditional love I saw in his gaze. At the same time, I was being read fairy tales, like Cinderella, and came to believe that romantic love would satisfy that longing for love.

So, I married my handsome prince at age 19. But then, by age 29, I found myself alone, as a single mother, with four young children. I was devastated and convinced that something was terribly wrong with me, to have ended up in such a predicament. 

I had learned to love and please others, but not how to love and respect myself. I was a “good girl,” and repressed my urges to have my own needs acknowledged and met. A wise teacher later told me, “We need to love everyone, including ourselves.” This was an amazing revelation for me!

Learning to meditate helped immensely to bring moments of peace, while I was sitting still, though I was still being triggered regularly in my relationships. Finally, the Kiloby Inquiries taught me how to turn my attention inside in daily life – towards the trapped thoughts and emotions I’d been running from – so that I could face and release them. It was like some tender, lost children began coming home, to take their rightful place in my inner world. 

I am honored and excited to be able to facilitate these wonderful inquiries for others.

Sumitra lives on the Hawaiian island of Kauai with some of her family. She has four grown children and six grandchildren. For many years she lived and worked in a yoga retreat community in California, and has taught yoga, meditation and Compassionate Communication in addition to facilitating the tools of the Kiloby Inquiries (since 2013).

Sumitra also loves working with couples and others with relationship challenges in a simple (though not always easy) deep listening practice that allows each person to be truly heard and acknowledged.

Alina is a certified KI facilitator & a founder of Presence Alchemy – An advance mindfulness platform dedicated to liberating suffering & limiting core beliefs through Kiloby Inquiries & non-dual awareness. Presence Alchemy was born eight years into Alina’s embodiment journey of an inner shift from ego to wakefulness. Alina works one-on-one with clients, hosts online intensives and training, and organizes local retreats & workshops.
Alec Rodrigues has been certified to facilitate inquiry since 2015 and brings a keen sense of intuition to his work. He believes that in connection, the deepest healing takes place, that the mirror of relationship is the best crucible for transformation. Through rest and inquiry, Alec has found the empowerment to meet others authentically and stop running so damn fast from the seeming “ordinariness” of life.

He currently lives in Washington state with his girlfriend and works as a training assistant for the KI Personal Mentorship Program, where he empowers enrollees by teaching them the KI tools.