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These Terms represent an agreement between you and Scott Kiloby LLC (also hereinafter referred to as “we”, “us”, or “our”) and govern your access and use of our website www.kiloby.com (hereinafter referred to as “Website”), and all related pages and any of the products and services made available through any of the pages, as well as the Members Area that is currently located at a platform provided by a third party. We collectively refer to the Website and the products and services for purchase in these terms as the “Services”. By using any of the Services, you acknowledge that you have read, understood and fully agree to be bound by and comply with these Terms. If you disagree with these Terms, please do not use our Website.

  1. Services
    You agree that the Services, content, videos, handouts, worksheets, audio files, and any other materials made available on the Website by us, third parties or other members of the Members Area that is offered as part of the Services, as well as the look and feel of all of the preceding (collectively referred to as the “Content”) are maintained for your personal use and information only, by Scott Kiloby LLC and are the property of Scott Kiloby LLC. You agree that our Content includes all proprietary videos, HTML/CSS, Javascript, graphics, voice and sound recordings, artwork, photos, documents and text, and other materials on the Website. Subject to your compliance with these Terms, Scott Kiloby LLC grants you a limited, non-exclusive, non-transferable license to access, view and use the Services, subject to payment, for your personal use only. No Content may be copied, reproduced, republished, uploaded, posted, transmitted, distributed, or used for public or commercial purposes unless Scott Kiloby LLC expressly grants written permission. We may revoke (terminate) your license to use the Services, in whole or in part, without providing any refund or cancelling your obligation to make installment payments where applicable if we determine, in our sole discretion, that you have breached or violated any of the provisions of these Terms. We may also change, suspend, or discontinue any aspect of our Services at any time, including the availability of any promotions, feature or content.

  2. Payments
    You may purchase licenses to certain Services through a one-time payment or in pre-defined installments. When you make a purchase, you authorize us to charge the credit card you provide on a one-time basis or in accordance with your chosen payment plan. When you purchase a subscription to the Members Area, you authorize us to charge the credit card you provide monthly, quarterly, or yearly, depending on your selected payment plan. We reserve the right to cancel any order if necessary for reasons such as fraudulent orders or absence of payment.

  3. Refunds
    All our Services are non-refundable.

  4. Non-transferability
    All our Services are non-exchangeable and non-transferable between third parties and Services at the Website. If you wish to discontinue any Service, you may transfer to someone else the remaining time (subscription to the Members Area) or the remaining Service (facilitated sessions or any other programs, except the training programs), to be arranged by you at your discretion.

  5. Your Conduct
    You agree that you will not: (i) use the Services in a manner that (a) violates any applicable international, federal, state, provincial or local laws, regulations, rules, ordinances, statutes, requirements, codes or orders of any governmental or judicial authorities; (b) is fraudulent, deceptive or misleading; (c) is threatening, harassing, discriminatory, libelous, defamatory, pornographic or obscene; (d) violates anyone’s rights of privacy, publicity or other rights; (e) violates any contractual or fiduciary obligations; (f) infringes on any copyrights, trademarks, service marks, trade secrets, patents or other intellectual property rights; (g) has an adverse effect on our business, reputation or ability to provide Services; or (h) would otherwise be reasonably deemed objectionable under the circumstances; (i) violate any program guidelines applicable to use of particular Services or interfere with, impair or disrupt the ability of others to use such Services; (ii) use the Services so as to impersonate any person or entity, falsely state or otherwise misrepresent your affiliation with a person or entity or provide inaccurate information; (iii) violate or attempt to violate the security of the Services; (iv) reverse engineer, decompile or disassemble any portion of the Services; (v) “scrape” information from the Services by automated means; (vi) interfere with the ability of others or permit any unauthorized access to or use of any Services that you have licensed or to any password applicable to your account for the Services; (vii) use, redistribute or resell any part of the Services, other than such unremunerated sharing via social media as may be authorized on the Services or otherwise in writing by us; or (viii) reproduce, modify, display, distribute, sell, re-sell, distribute, publish, disclose, videotape, share, divulge, transfer, exploit or create derivative works from any of the Services, in whole or in part, except as expressly provided in these Terms or express consent by Kiloby LLC. Pursuant to (i), any and all meetings or sessions organized by Scott Kiloby LLC or any of its third-party providers are deemed confidential.  Therefore, you will not, under any circumstances, share recordings from any Service with anyone, from any programs, facilitated sessions or the Members Area. Scott Kiloby LLC will not be held liable for people who violate these terms. In addition, we reserve the right to remove individuals who behave in a disruptive fashion, including those who share confidential recordings violating these terms, from group programs without refund.

  6. Partial Confidentiality Waiver
    With the purchase of any Services, you consent to the disclosure and sharing of the following information within the faculty of facilitators and trainers to the extent that it pertains to the primary repression and its consequent programming, including sabotaging patterns, that may impact the effectiveness of facilitation, mentorship or training by subsequent facilitators and trainers.
    Recordings of workshops, meetings or retreats or excerpts from them may be used as part of future training, or for the purpose of marketing or future products. We value your privacy and confidentiality. If you prefer not to appear in any publicly released videos, please notify us at support@kiloby.com, and we will ensure that your presence is redacted out of it before release.

  7. Proprietary Rights
    We own the Services, including all Content, and other intellectual property, comprising the Services. The preceding ownership rights include all Intellectual Property Rights inherent in or appurtenant to the Services. Without limitation of the previous, the Services contain proprietary material of Scott Kiloby LLC, which is protected by copyright and other laws respecting proprietary rights. The Services are also protected by copyright as a collective work and/or compilation, under Unites States of America copyright laws, international conventions, and other copyright laws. Scott Kiloby LLC retains all rights in the Services, including all copyright and other proprietary rights worldwide in all media. You may not use the Services except as expressly permitted under these Terms. Modification of the Content or use of the Content for any other purpose is a violation of the copyright and other proprietary rights of Scott Kiloby LLC, and may be subject to monetary damages and penalties. You may not distribute, modify, transmit or use the content of the Website or any Content, including any and all software, tools, graphics and/or sound files, for public or commercial purposes without the express written permission of Scott Kiloby LLC.All trade names, trademarks, images and biographical information of people used in the Content and contained on the Website are either the property of or used with permission by Scott Kiloby LLC. The use of Content by you is strictly prohibited unless expressly permitted by these Terms. Any unauthorized use of Content may violate the copyright, trademark, and other proprietary rights of Scott Kiloby LLC and/or third parties, as well as the laws of privacy and publicity, and other regulations and statutes. Nothing contained in this agreement or in the Website shall be construed as granting, by implication or otherwise, any license or right to use any Trademark or other proprietary information without the express written consent of Scott Kiloby LLC or third party owners. Scott Kiloby LLC respects the copyright, trademark and all other intellectual property rights of others. Scott Kiloby LLC has the right, but has no obligation, to remove content and accounts containing materials that it deems, in its sole discretion, to be unlawful, offensive, threatening, libelous, defamatory, pornographic, obscene or otherwise objectionable or violates any party’s intellectual property or these Terms. If you believe that your intellectual property rights are being violated and/or that any work belonging to you has been reproduced on the Website or in any Content in any way, you may notify Scott Kiloby LLC at support@kiloby.com. Please provide your name and contact information, the nature of your work and how it is being violated, all relevant copyright and/or trademark registration information, the location/URL of the violation, and any other information you believe is relevant.

  8. Representations
    You represent and warrant that you are at least the age of majority in your country, state or province of residence.

  9. Indemnity
    You agree to indemnify, defend and hold harmless Scott Kiloby LLC and its affiliates, owner, founders, agents or licensors thereof (collectively, the “Indemnified Parties”) from and against any and all claims, losses, damages, liabilities and costs, including reasonable attorneys’ fees, sustained by the Indemnified Parties in connection with any claim arising out of or relating to (i) your breach of this agreement and these Terms, (ii) any violation by you of law or the rights of any third party, (iii) your use of our Services, or (iv) your conduct in connection with the Website or the Services or with other users of the Website and Services. You shall cooperate as fully as reasonably requested by Scott Kiloby LLC in defence of any such claim. Scott Kiloby LLC reserves the right to assume the exclusive defence and control of any matter subject to indemnification by you.

  10. Disclaimers; Limitations of Liability
    This Website and all Content is for educational purposes only and is not intended in any way to be a replacement for, or a substitute to, qualified medical advice, diagnosis or treatment, or as a replacement for, or a substitute to, psychological advice, diagnosis, or treatment, or therapy from a fully qualified person. If you think you are suffering from a medical or psychological condition, consult your doctor or other appropriately qualified professional person or service immediately. Staff at Scott Kiloby LLC and third-party providers are not physicians, mental health therapists or counsellors, or addictions counsellors. They do not advise about how to live one’s life. They do not employ psychological techniques to improve one’s thinking, personal story, or belief systems. They assist people in seeing through their identity, not constructing or changing it, as mental health counsellors do. This work is not based on Western psychology, science, medicine, or addiction counselling. This is spiritual work rooted in spiritual traditions such as Buddhism, Hinduism, Sufism, and Christian mysticism.We are not responsible or liable for any action made by a user based on the content of this Website. We are not liable for the contents of any external websites listed, or for any actions made by a user based on the contents of these external sites, nor do we necessarily endorse any product or service mentioned or advised on any of these external sites. Any data or information is provided for informational purposes only and is not intended for any other commercial or non-commercial purposes. While Scott Kiloby LLC uses reasonable efforts to include accurate and up-to-date information on the Website, we make no warranties or representations of its accuracy. Scott Kiloby LLC assumes no liability or responsibility for any errors or omissions in the Content, or for any actions taken in reliance thereon. By accessing the Website, you agree not to redistribute the material found therein, unless appropriate rights have been granted. We provide links to select sites for your convenience only. We do not necessarily endorse or recommend the services of any company. We shall not be liable for any damages or costs of any type arising out of or in any way connected with your use of our website. By using the site, you fully agree to these Terms.Withdrawal from some substances may cause seizures and/or other health conditions, including death, and the participant is strongly encouraged to obtain and continue in the care of a qualified healthcare provider before, during, and after the time in which he/she works with a facilitator. No claim is made for the cure of any disease or ailment. Scott Kiloby, the third-party providers on this Website, Scott Kiloby LLC, Living Realization, and the Natural Rest Company and all agents, organizations, and entities associated therewith are not responsible for any and all liability related to or arising from your participation in these inquiries.Scott Kiloby LLC does not warrant that use of the Content will be uninterrupted or error-free, that defects will be corrected, or that the Website, the Content, and/or the materials available on the Website are free from bugs or viruses or other harmful components. Scott Kiloby LLC shall not be responsible for any performance or service problems caused by any third-party website or third-party service provider. Any such problem shall be governed solely by agreement between you and that provider.You assume all responsibilities and obligations with respect to the use of the services and any decisions, advice, conclusions or recommendations made or given as a result of the use of the services, including without limitation any decision made or action taken by you in reliance upon the services. You are in charge of you. There is no guarantee that you will achieve any particular results using the techniques and tools provided in connection with the Services.

  11. Law; Jurisdiction
    These Terms shall be governed by the laws of The United States of America, including and specifically the laws of Wyoming. You and Scott Kiloby LLC agree that any action or dispute between you and us will be resolved exclusively by arbitration in Wyoming.

  12. Privacy
    Your use of the Services is subject to our Privacy Policy, which is incorporated into these Terms as an integral part of it. By using any Services, you acknowledge and consent to our collection and use of information as outlined in the Privacy Policy.

  13. Changes
    We may modify these Terms at any time by posting changes on the Website; however, (i) these changes will only become effective and binding for you after we provide notice on the Website that these Terms have changed and you first use any of the Services following the date of such posting, (ii) the changes will only apply with respect to your use of the Services after such changes become effective, and (iii) any change in payment obligations will only apply to your subsequent purchases on, or usage of, the Services. If at any time you find these Terms unacceptable and disagree with them, you thereafter will have no right to use or access the Services.

  14. Links
    The Services may contain links to websites that we do not operate. We are not responsible for the content of any such websites, and you should direct any concerns regarding such websites to their respective website administrators.

  15. Protected Content
    By purchasing a subscription to the Members Area that is offered as part of the Services, you agree that you will not distribute, copy, create or recreate any content that is recognizably similar to the Content without the express consent of Scott Kiloby LLC. By agreeing to these conditions, you hereby accept that any and all Content (courses, workbooks, handouts, worksheets, audio files and any other content) is owned solely by Scott Kiloby LLC, and you will not replicate it in any form.

  16. Miscellaneous
  • If any provision of this agreement shall be unlawful, void, or for any reason unenforceable, then that provision shall be deemed severable from this agreement and shall not affect the validity and enforceability of any remaining provisions.
  • No joint venture, partnership, employment or agency relationship exists between you and Scott Kiloby LLC as a result of these Terms and/or your use of the Services. These Terms shall be effective as of the date you accept them. 
  • These Terms represent the entire agreement between you and Scott Kiloby LLC with respect to the subject matter hereof, and supersede any and all prior understandings, statements or representations, whether electronic, oral or written, regarding the Services. 
  • Scott Kiloby LLC may assign these Terms at its discretion. You may not assign these Terms. No waiver of any obligation or right of either party shall be effective unless in writing, executed by the party against whom it is being enforced. 
  • In addition to money damages, Scott Kiloby LLC shall be entitled to seek equitable relief where appropriate if you breach any of these Terms. 
  • The titles and subtitles in these Terms are used for convenience only and are not to be considered in construing it. All references herein to “including” and variations thereof shall be deemed to mean, “including, but not limited to.” All references herein to “we,” “our” or variations thereof shall be deemed to refer to Scott Kiloby LLC. All references herein to “you,” “your” or variations thereof shall be deemed to refer to you individually if you are entering into these Terms on an individual basis, and to the corporation, partnership or other organization or legal entity that you represent, if you are entering into these Terms on behalf of such organization or entity.

Last updated: February 14
th, 2024

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"Working with Dan has been nothing short of transformational. His open heart, honesty about his personal experience and permission to be real and not hide have helped me unlock those qualities in myself. And that has been a total game changer. I've been truly blessed, not only to have him as my KI Facilitator, but also as my mentor. Without a doubt, working with him has helped me to show up authentically, helped sharpen my tools and made me a better facilitator than I would've been on my own. I can't recommend him enough."
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Dan McLintock is a Certified Facilitator, Trainer and the Co-Developer of the Kiloby Inquiries method/approach the New Model of Recovery along w Scott Kiloby. 

A Jacksonville, Florida native, Dan graduated Flagler College in 2004 with B.A. in Theatre Arts and English Literature and has played music professionally in bands for over 20 years. But his true passion lies in sharing the context, possibility and practicality of healing, awakening and release. 

Dan has worked one-on-one with clients in and out of the Kiloby Center since 2017 and has an unconditionally loving and earnest approach to healing trauma, dissolving the drivers of addiction/suffering and unhooking long-held toxic beliefs about ourselves, others and the world at large. 

He’s also worked intensively, side-by-side with Scott Kiloby for the past three years to develop the transformative tools of the Kiloby Inquiries as well as the principles and approach of the “New Model of Recovery” rooted in unconditional love and non-judgment. Much of this approach was borne out of Scott and Dan’s work with each other on their own personal traumas as well as their work with clients at the Kiloby Center. 

Scott and Dan have simplified, demystified and condensed some of the principles and practices of eastern/non-dual spirituality into an easily accessible set of tools most anyone can understand, learn and utilize to free themselves from their own suffering. 

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A clarity call is a free 30-minute introductory call with a Certified KI Facilitator. During a clarity call, you can ask any questions you have about KI and see whether a particular facilitator is a good fit for you.

To book a clarity call, select your preferred facilitator (hover over their picture and click the “Meet” button). Then, enter your email and click “Book Your Call.” From there, you’ll be able to select your preferred date and time and schedule your clarity call (please double-check your time zone before booking).

Valerie Vinger is a thriving survivor of life’s painful challenges and growth opportunities. She has worked with 12-step programs and is currently a 13-year stage-III cancer survivor. Her cancer recovery journey started with the traditional “cut, poison, burn” approach but eventually led her down a natural path to healing her body, her pain and suffering, and her buried emotions.

Valerie first stumbled upon Scott Kiloby at a workshop of his in Boulder, Colorado in 2012, which she says is one of the most transformative experiences she’s ever had. She is filled with gratitude for the person she has become through her journey with cancer recovery and with the Inquiries, which she describes as “coming home to myself.” She loves working with people who are ready for relief from their pain and suffering.

Julianne Eanniello is a Certified Trainer and Facilitator of both the Kiloby Inquiries and the Unfindability Inquiries (formerly called the Living Inquiries). She is also a Certified TRE Practitioner, and the developer of the somatic movement process called Natural Flow Movement. She works with clients all over the world on virtually any topic, including spiritual seeking, stress, anxiety, depression, pain and health related issues, traumatic experiences, repression, relationship issues, and general unhappiness with ourselves and our lives. She does this through online sessions, deepening courses, workshops and facilitator certification training.

About Julianne:

For most of my life I’ve wondered who I am and why I am here. As I was growing up, no one else seemed to be talking about these things, or even thinking about them, so I buried it deep inside and tried my best to fit in the way I was “supposed” to, all the while feeling like there was something desperately wrong with me and that I needed to fix it.

In my early thirties, the death of a young relative left me feeling hopeless and helpless, wondering what is the point of life if we’re all just going to die anyway? This launched me on a search. I didn’t even know what I was looking for, I just knew that there was a longing – a desperate longing for something that actually made sense about life. I learned several alternative spiritual and healing techniques. I meditated. I read books and watched videos. I eventually learned of non-duality teachings, and I read more books, watched more videos, and even sat with several ‘awakened’ teachers. Yet I was still searching, something still felt missing. I was looking for the key that would unlock the mystery of me and of life.

In my early forties, I developed a chronic health condition that left me unable to work for several years, and most days barely able to get out of bed due to extreme fatigue, brain fog and pain. I lost my banking job, and eventually lost my home. I saw a multitude of doctors to try to find out what was wrong with me, and used every tool in my metaphysical and alternative medicine toolkit to try to heal myself. My seeking became even more intense, and I was looking for a way to escape my pain.

In 2009, I met Scott Kiloby. Since I started working with him and doing the Living Inquiries, the seeking for enlightenment has stopped, and the question of ‘who am I’ is no longer relevant. My victim stories around my health started falling away. Once I started looking at my experience through inquiry, everything changed. I stopped chasing something ‘out there.’ I no longer seek some future state of happiness or peace. This is not to say that I don’t have problems, or ever experience pain. Quite the contrary. I still use the inquiries regularly, and now there is much less avoidance or resistance to what I’m experiencing. I experience more and more freedom in the present moment, exactly as it appears.

Having trained with Scott, I was one of the first to be certified as a Senior Living Inquiries Facilitator and Trainer in early 2012. In 2014, I moved to CA and became a business partner with Scott at The Kiloby Center for Recovery, where we worked with people suffering from addiction, anxiety, depression and more for the next 8 years.

I can’t imagine my life without these inquiries. They saved me from myself. If you are still suffering, searching, longing… I encourage you to give this a try.

As a young child I saw a picture of Jesus gazing lovingly at some children around his feet. I immediately longed for the unconditional love I saw in his gaze. At the same time, I was being read fairy tales, like Cinderella, and came to believe that romantic love would satisfy that longing for love.

So, I married my handsome prince at age 19. But then, by age 29, I found myself alone, as a single mother, with four young children. I was devastated and convinced that something was terribly wrong with me, to have ended up in such a predicament. 

I had learned to love and please others, but not how to love and respect myself. I was a “good girl,” and repressed my urges to have my own needs acknowledged and met. A wise teacher later told me, “We need to love everyone, including ourselves.” This was an amazing revelation for me!

Learning to meditate helped immensely to bring moments of peace, while I was sitting still, though I was still being triggered regularly in my relationships. Finally, the Kiloby Inquiries taught me how to turn my attention inside in daily life – towards the trapped thoughts and emotions I’d been running from – so that I could face and release them. It was like some tender, lost children began coming home, to take their rightful place in my inner world. 

I am honored and excited to be able to facilitate these wonderful inquiries for others.

Sumitra lives in Eugene, Oregon, US.  She has four grown children and six grandchildren. For many years she lived and worked in a yoga retreat community in California, and has taught yoga, meditation and Compassionate Communication in addition to facilitating the tools of the Kiloby Inquiries (since 2013).

Working with compulsions – especially regarding food – is a special interest for Sumitra. 

She also loves working with couples and others with relationship challenges in a simple deep listening practice that allows each person to be truly heard and acknowledged.

Kiloby Inquiries all dimension certified trainer & facilitator ✅.  


I am a non bypassing non-dual teacher with 13 years of direct experience. Waking up and abiding in our true nature was not enough. Some unconscious repressed fear was debilitating my expression for years. Stepping into the power of my voice fully was only possible with KI. In 2020 signing up to KI training with Scott and Dan changed the trajectory and the quality of my life and work. I released loads of repressed shame and anger from my system and now am able to let live manifest and express effortlessly. And I know you can live and be the fullest free expression of YOU!


I am so passionate about this method of deprograming & embodiment that I am here to inspire others to experience it for themselves. These tools and my perseverance in experimenting with them brought effortlessness, ease in the unknown, financial abundance, freedom of expression, burst of creativity and such a fulfilling work environment, where everyone is honoring integrity, authenticity and inner deepening. I’ve learned so much from all my fellow trainees and clients, it’s been such a privilege to hold space and witness their growth and transformation. I’ve been training in KI with Scott and on my own since 2021 and now so excited to train all dimensions training for full immersion in this work. 


I have experience working with: parents and children, childhood trauma, repression of voice/power/expression, non-dual bypassing, spiritual seeking, emotional repression, addiction, chronic pain, abuse, sexual abuse, sexual repression, depression, PTSD, birth trauma mother and baby, grief and loss, couples counseling, lack and scarcity mindset. 


I can help you move beyond suffering and fear into the world more fully with your gifts, authenticity and uniqueness recognizing your unbroken, true nature. 

Alec Rodrigues has been certified to facilitate inquiry since 2015 and brings a keen sense of intuition to his work. He believes that in connection, the deepest healing takes place, that the mirror of relationship is the best crucible for transformation. Through rest and inquiry, Alec has found the empowerment to meet others authentically and stop running so damn fast from the seeming “ordinariness” of life.

He currently lives in Washington state with his girlfriend and works as a training assistant for the KI Personal Mentorship Program, where he empowers enrollees by teaching them the KI tools.