New Model Of Recovery Mountain Spring Retreat

Train with the founders
Scott Kiloby and Dan McLintock, co-developers of the Kiloby Inquiries along with several Training Assistants are glad to present this experiential retreat in North Carolina. Based on the principles, mechanics, and tools of the 'Kiloby Inquiries' you will learn how to utilize them within a reality-based, unconditionally loving environment called the 'New Model of Recovery from Suffering'.
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"The New Model Of Recovery is a deep dive into the unknown, where rules, beliefs, programs and conditions that we placed on ourselves unsuccessfully for years dissolve away, and we finally begin to meet and heal the pain that was driving it all."
Dan McLintock
Co-Developer, the Kiloby Inquiries
NMOR Retreat Schedule

Scott Kiloby and Dan McLintock, co-developers of the Kiloby Inquiries along with several Training Assistants are glad to present this experiential retreat in North Carolina.

Based on the principles, mechanics, and tools of the ‘Kiloby Inquiries’ you will learn how to utilize them within a reality-based, unconditionally loving environment called the ‘New Model of Recovery from Suffering’. 

These inquiries help anchor one in deeper and deeper awareness by dissolving and deprogramming long held belief systems and deficiency stories that drive anxiety, depression, addiction and suffering in general.

This retreat is for anyone interested in progressively ending suffering in themselves and others, lay people, mindfulness practitioners, mental health professionals and clinicians.

Participants will receive context and learn these skills for themselves through a series of talks and teachings followed by experiential work including group discussion, one-on-one sessions, and self/peer support time. Course materials (readings and access to videos) will be provided.

Retreat Includes:

  • 100+ Page Manual
  • 20+ Hours of Training Videos
  • 18 Hours Live in person with Scott Kiloby and Dan McLintock


Support Package Includes:

  • 8 Small Group Hours via Zoom Prior to and following Live Retreat 
  • (One Training Assistant with 4 Participants in each group)
  • 2 One on One Sessions via Zoom 

Some of The Topics Include But Not Limited to:

  • Introduction to New Model of Recovery 
  • Difference between KI and NMOR
  • Resting as awareness
  • Commitment to radical deconstruction
  • Balance between safety and freedom
  • Preoccupation
  • Stages of recovery
  • Addiction identity
  • Trauma
  • External pressure and other drivers
  • Permission to use
  • Self trust and personal responsibility
  • Measure of success and trajectory

Register below

Ready to sign up for the program? Or maybe you want to join us on a free info webinar first (November 28th). Either way, enter your email below to register.

Frequently Asked Questions

LOCATION: ‘Bend of Ivy’, a beautiful zen inspired retreat center near Asheville, NC in the Blue Ridge Mountains. www.bendofivylodge.com 

Directions to Bend of Ivy
www.bendofivylodge.com/directions

Once you have registered, you will be contacted to get your arrival time so we can help with transportation options (ride share opportunities)  as well as room assignments and food preferences etc.

Transportation info – we will need your:

  • arriving flight info: day/time/airline/flight #
  • departing flight info: day/time
  • by car: travel date/departure city & state

Fees:

  • Retreat – $1,200 per person
  • Lodge fee – $495 per person (3 nights) OR
  • Commuter fee – $295 per person


Retreat Total Includes:

  • KI Essentials Curriculum to study prior to retreat
  • 8 meals

Support Package:

  • $350 per person – Required for anyone that does not understand basic KI (self facilitation, etc.)
  • Optional for Certified Facilitators or Facilitators in Training 


Support Package includes:

  • KI Essentials Curriculum to study prior to Retreat
  • 4 Small Group Meetings with a Training Assistant and 4 Participants (Groups last 2 hours)
  • 2 One on One KI Sessions with a Training Assistant
You will sign up and make your first payment and then the monthly payments will be automatically charged to the same card.

Deposit Payments are non-refundable unless cancellation due to Covid 19 NC protocol or participant has Covid.

"Working with Dan has been nothing short of transformational. His open heart, honesty about his personal experience and permission to be real and not hide have helped me unlock those qualities in myself. And that has been a total game changer. I've been truly blessed, not only to have him as my KI Facilitator, but also as my mentor. Without a doubt, working with him has helped me to show up authentically, helped sharpen my tools and made me a better facilitator than I would've been on my own. I can't recommend him enough."
Darby Totten
Certified KI Facilitator

Dan McLintock is a Certified Facilitator, Trainer and the Co-Developer of the Kiloby Inquiries method/approach the New Model of Recovery along w Scott Kiloby. 

A Jacksonville, Florida native, Dan graduated Flagler College in 2004 with B.A. in Theatre Arts and English Literature and has played music professionally in bands for over 20 years. But his true passion lies in sharing the context, possibility and practicality of healing, awakening and release. 

Dan has worked one-on-one with clients in and out of the Kiloby Center since 2017 and has an unconditionally loving and earnest approach to healing trauma, dissolving the drivers of addiction/suffering and unhooking long-held toxic beliefs about ourselves, others and the world at large. 

He’s also worked intensively, side-by-side with Scott Kiloby for the past three years to develop the transformative tools of the Kiloby Inquiries as well as the principles and approach of the “New Model of Recovery” rooted in unconditional love and non-judgment. Much of this approach was borne out of Scott and Dan’s work with each other on their own personal traumas as well as their work with clients at the Kiloby Center. 

Scott and Dan have simplified, demystified and condensed some of the principles and practices of eastern/non-dual spirituality into an easily accessible set of tools most anyone can understand, learn and utilize to free themselves from their own suffering. 

What is a Clarity Call?

What is a Clarity Call?

A clarity call is a free 30-minute introductory call with a Certified KI Facilitator. During a clarity call, you can ask any questions you have about KI and see whether a particular facilitator is a good fit for you.

To book a clarity call, select your preferred facilitator (hover over their picture and click the “Meet” button). Then, enter your email and click “Book Your Call.” From there, you’ll be able to select your preferred date and time and schedule your clarity call (please double-check your time zone before booking).

Note: Clarity calls, while free, require you to enter a credit card to book. If you are late or miss the scheduled meeting, you will be charged $49. This is to protect the facilitator’s time. You will be able to reschedule or cancel the appointment without charge with appropriate notice. The length of the required notice varies by facilitator. Please read the terms and conditions before booking your call.

Valerie Vinger is a thriving survivor of life’s painful challenges and growth opportunities. She has worked with 12-step programs and is currently a 13-year stage-III cancer survivor. Her cancer recovery journey started with the traditional “cut, poison, burn” approach but eventually led her down a natural path to healing her body, her pain and suffering, and her buried emotions.

Valerie first stumbled upon Scott Kiloby at a workshop of his in Boulder, Colorado in 2012, which she says is one of the most transformative experiences she’s ever had. She is filled with gratitude for the person she has become through her journey with cancer recovery and with the Inquiries, which she describes as “coming home to myself.” She loves working with people who are ready for relief from their pain and suffering.

Julianne Eanniello is a Kiloby Inquiries Facilitator and Certification Trainer, a founding Living Inquiries Facilitator and former trainer, Co-Founder and Clinical Director of the Kiloby Center for Recovery in Rancho Mirage CA, and a Certified TRE Practitioner.  About Julianne:

For most of my life I’ve wondered who I am and why I am here.  As I was growing up, no one else seemed to be talking about these things, or even thinking about them, so I buried it deep inside and tried my best to fit in the way I was “supposed” to, all the while feeling like there was something desperately wrong with me and that I needed to fix it.

In my early thirties, the death of a young relative left me feeling hopeless and helpless, wondering what is the point of life if we’re all just going to die anyway?  This launched me on a search.  I didn’t even know what I was looking for, I just knew that there was a longing – a desperate longing for something that actually made sense about life.  I learned several alternative spiritual and healing techniques.  I meditated.  I read books and watched videos.  I eventually learned of non-duality teachings, and I read more books, watched more videos, and even sat with several ‘awakened’ teachers.  Yet I was still searching, something still felt missing. I was looking for the key that would unlock the mystery of me and of life.

In my early forties, I developed a chronic health condition that left me unable to work for several years, and most days barely able to get out of bed due to extreme fatigue, brain fog and pain. I lost my banking job, and eventually lost my home.  I saw a multitude of doctors to try to find out what was wrong with me, and used every tool in my metaphysical and alternative medicine toolkit to try to heal myself. My seeking became even more intense, and I was looking for a way to escape my pain.

In 2009, I met Scott Kiloby.  Since I started working with him and doing the Living Inquiries, the seeking for enlightenment has stopped, and the question of ‘who am I’ is no longer relevant.  My victim stories around my health started falling away. Once I started looking at my experience with inquiry, everything changed.  I stopped chasing something ‘out there.’  I no longer seek some future state of happiness or peace.  This is not to say that I don’t have problems, or ever experience pain. Quite the contrary. I still use the inquiries regularly, and now there is much less avoidance or resistance to what I’m experiencing. I experience more and more freedom in the present moment, exactly as it appears.

Having trained with Scott, I was one of the first to be certified as a Senior Living Inquiries Facilitator and Trainer in early 2012.  In 2014, I moved to CA to work with Scott at The Kiloby Center for Recovery, where we work with people suffering from addiction, anxiety, depression and more.  In early 2015, I became his business partner, and we are co-owners in the business.  Since then, we have developed additional inquiries, the Kiloby Inquires, to help our clients.

I work with clients all over the world on virtually any topic, including spiritual seeking, stress, anxiety, depression, traumatic historical experiences, relationship issues, addiction, compulsion, and general unhappiness with ourselves and our lives.  I do this through online sessions, deepening courses, workshops and facilitator certification training.  Those facing addiction are welcome to explore The Kiloby Center’s unique program. 

I can’t imagine my life without these inquiries.  They saved me from myself.  If you are still suffering, searching, longing… I encourage you to give this a try.

As a young child I saw a picture of Jesus gazing lovingly at some children around his feet. I immediately longed for the unconditional love I saw in his gaze. At the same time, I was being read fairy tales, like Cinderella, and came to believe that romantic love would satisfy that longing for love.

So, I married my handsome prince at age 19. But then, by age 29, I found myself alone, as a single mother, with four young children. I was devastated and convinced that something was terribly wrong with me, to have ended up in such a predicament. 

I had learned to love and please others, but not how to love and respect myself. I was a “good girl,” and repressed my urges to have my own needs acknowledged and met. A wise teacher later told me, “We need to love everyone, including ourselves.” This was an amazing revelation for me!

Learning to meditate helped immensely to bring moments of peace, while I was sitting still, though I was still being triggered regularly in my relationships. Finally, the Kiloby Inquiries taught me how to turn my attention inside in daily life – towards the trapped thoughts and emotions I’d been running from – so that I could face and release them. It was like some tender, lost children began coming home, to take their rightful place in my inner world. 

I am honored and excited to be able to facilitate these wonderful inquiries for others.

Sumitra lives on the Hawaiian island of Kauai with some of her family. She has four grown children and six grandchildren. For many years she lived and worked in a yoga retreat community in California, and has taught yoga, meditation and Compassionate Communication in addition to facilitating the tools of the Kiloby Inquiries (since 2013).

Sumitra also loves working with couples and others with relationship challenges in a simple (though not always easy) deep listening practice that allows each person to be truly heard and acknowledged.

Alina is a certified KI facilitator & a founder of Presence Alchemy – An advance mindfulness platform dedicated to liberating suffering & limiting core beliefs through Kiloby Inquiries & non-dual awareness. Presence Alchemy was born eight years into Alina’s embodiment journey of an inner shift from ego to wakefulness. Alina works one-on-one with clients, hosts online intensives and training, and organizes local retreats & workshops.
Alec Rodrigues has been certified to facilitate inquiry since 2015 and brings a keen sense of intuition to his work. He believes that in connection, the deepest healing takes place, that the mirror of relationship is the best crucible for transformation. Through rest and inquiry, Alec has found the empowerment to meet others authentically and stop running so damn fast from the seeming “ordinariness” of life.

He currently lives in Washington state with his girlfriend and works as a training assistant for the KI Personal Mentorship Program, where he empowers enrollees by teaching them the KI tools.