Personal Mentorship & Facilitator Certification Program

The Kiloby Inquiries contain an important element of teaching people to abide in the peace and clarity of the present moment. In addition, KI contains tools that have the ability to bring up to the surface unconscious stories, beliefs, traumas and repressed emotions that help clear the somatic body, making it easier to live in presence. ​

Through their personal practice together, and their work with clients at the Kiloby Center for Recovery, Scott Kiloby and Dan McLintock created these effective tools. The Kiloby Inquiries pair the age old practice of self-inquiry with practical, accessible, and evidence-based methods of grounding in the present moment. Inquiry allows us to unearth the fears, beliefs, and deficiency stories that drive suffering in its many forms.

The Personal Mentorship Program May be Right for You If...

• You are interested in deepening your personal self-support skills
• You are interested in working with others and becoming a facilitator
• You are interested in developing inquiry skills to work with your partner, friends and/or family members
• You are interested in incorporating the Kiloby Inquiries into your current therapeutic models or coaching with existing clients

Client Testimonials

"The new program is devoted to mentorship and your own deepening so you will have that foundation in place and then you can add on training to become a Certified Facilitator at the end. You can divide payments up that way too. I think this is probably the best program we've created so far in that it has a very comprehensive mentor program built into it with the option of becoming a Certified Facilitator."
Scott Kiloby
Co-Developer, the Kiloby Inquiries

Frequently Asked Questions

The Personal Mentorship Program will be limited to 16 participants. The number of participants in the Facilitator Training portion of the program will depend on how many decide to move into that training. Each small group will be made up of one training assistant and four participants.     ​
You don’t have to install the zoom app in order to attend the Meetings, but you might want to do that in order to practice with it. There will be one link that you will use every week to attend. There are some steps you can take before the Program begins to ensure a smooth Zoom experience. It is always better to hardwire your computer to your modem so that is something you can work on in advance. It is always best to close out all applications and web browsers that might interfere with the Zoom Connection.
Each week you will receive an e-mail on the Monday before the next training. It will have the links you need for the Video and Documents to watch and read prior to the Live Training Session.
All of the meetings will be recorded and the links to the recordings will be included in the e-mail you will get on the Monday following each Live Training.
Once you have completed the Personalized Mentorship Program, you will have 6 months to decide if you want to move on to the Facilitator Training at the rate of $900.00. While learning the tools, all participants will be together in a Large Group for 2 hours per week. The end of the time together will be conducted in Small Groups. We like to mix Mentorship Participants and Facilitator Trainees together in small group. Each Small Group will have a Certified Facilitator Training Assistant to facilitate and guide.
The Personal Mentorship part of the Program is specifically focused on personal work so time is not spent on working with others. This Small Group work will focus solely on Personal Mentorship.
The Trainees that plan to become Certified Facilitators will start practicing facilitation skills. The Personalized Mentorship participants will be able to act as clients for the practice sessions which will help them with personal growth and getting more familiar with the KI Tools. Everyone will learn Self Inquiry, Small Group Inquiry and Real Time Looking which can be practiced as well.

If you sign up for both programs upfront, then more attention will be given to helping you understand how to use the tools for your personal work as well as when working with others.  If you plan on working with others, it will be an advantage to decide that upfront because you will get more training focused on working with others even during the Personal Mentorship Part of the Program.

Personalized Mentorship Program Payment Options:

One Time Payment: $2,300.00 or

Payment Plan: 4 Monthly Payments of 600.00 per Month

Personalized Mentorship Program + Certified Facilitator Training Payment Options:

One Time Payment: $3,200.00 or

Payment Plan: 5 Monthly Payments at 680.00 per Month
You will sign up and make your first payment and then the monthly payments will be automatically charged to the same card.
Training will take place online via Zoom. The Personal Mentorship Program will consist of 10 online modules, and the Facilitator Training portion will consist of four additional online modules. These modules include time in both large group (with all enrollees, trainers, and training assistants) and small group (with your assigned Training Assistant and three fellow enrollees). Small group time will allow for more personal attention to assure that each participant is grokking the material. You will also receive four total facilitated sessions with Training Assistants. You may split these sessions up between all the TAs, book them all with a single TAs, or use them any other way you wish. The modules are typically two hours long.
After the ten weeks, the small group period ends, and a lengthy practice period begins. During this time, you will be placed into a private Facebook group with trainees from several other KI training groups. During this period, you are expected to practice until you feel comfortable being evaluated for certification. Once you are ready for evaluation, Scott and/or Dan will evaluate your skills and either certify you or give you feedback, allowing you to practice a bit longer and schedule a new evaluation when ready.

Once certified in KI, facilitators may apply for available positions at the Kiloby Center for Recovery, the Kiloby Center Natural Rest House, and future centers to be opened around the country. They may also work in private practice using these methods or simply use them for their own growth and development as well as with loved ones.

Program Components

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What is a Clarity Call?

What is a Clarity Call?

A clarity call is a free 30-minute introductory call with a Certified KI Facilitator. During a clarity call, you can ask any questions you have about KI and see whether a particular facilitator is a good fit for you.

To book a clarity call, select your preferred facilitator (hover over their picture and click the “Meet” button). Then, enter your email and click “Book Your Call.” From there, you’ll be able to select your preferred date and time and schedule your clarity call (please double-check your time zone before booking).

Note: Clarity calls, while free, require you to enter a credit card to book. If you are late or miss the scheduled meeting, you will be charged $49. This is to protect the facilitator’s time. You will be able to reschedule or cancel the appointment without charge with appropriate notice. The length of the required notice varies by facilitator. Please read the terms and conditions before booking your call.

Valerie Vinger is a thriving survivor of life’s painful challenges and growth opportunities. She has worked with 12-step programs and is currently a 13-year stage-III cancer survivor. Her cancer recovery journey started with the traditional “cut, poison, burn” approach but eventually led her down a natural path to healing her body, her pain and suffering, and her buried emotions.

Valerie first stumbled upon Scott Kiloby at a workshop of his in Boulder, Colorado in 2012, which she says is one of the most transformative experiences she’s ever had. She is filled with gratitude for the person she has become through her journey with cancer recovery and with the Inquiries, which she describes as “coming home to myself.” She loves working with people who are ready for relief from their pain and suffering.

Julianne Eanniello is a Kiloby Inquiries Facilitator and Certification Trainer, a founding Living Inquiries Facilitator and former trainer, Co-Founder and Clinical Director of the Kiloby Center for Recovery in Rancho Mirage CA, and a Certified TRE Practitioner.  About Julianne:

For most of my life I’ve wondered who I am and why I am here.  As I was growing up, no one else seemed to be talking about these things, or even thinking about them, so I buried it deep inside and tried my best to fit in the way I was “supposed” to, all the while feeling like there was something desperately wrong with me and that I needed to fix it.

In my early thirties, the death of a young relative left me feeling hopeless and helpless, wondering what is the point of life if we’re all just going to die anyway?  This launched me on a search.  I didn’t even know what I was looking for, I just knew that there was a longing – a desperate longing for something that actually made sense about life.  I learned several alternative spiritual and healing techniques.  I meditated.  I read books and watched videos.  I eventually learned of non-duality teachings, and I read more books, watched more videos, and even sat with several ‘awakened’ teachers.  Yet I was still searching, something still felt missing. I was looking for the key that would unlock the mystery of me and of life.

In my early forties, I developed a chronic health condition that left me unable to work for several years, and most days barely able to get out of bed due to extreme fatigue, brain fog and pain. I lost my banking job, and eventually lost my home.  I saw a multitude of doctors to try to find out what was wrong with me, and used every tool in my metaphysical and alternative medicine toolkit to try to heal myself. My seeking became even more intense, and I was looking for a way to escape my pain.

In 2009, I met Scott Kiloby.  Since I started working with him and doing the Living Inquiries, the seeking for enlightenment has stopped, and the question of ‘who am I’ is no longer relevant.  My victim stories around my health started falling away. Once I started looking at my experience with inquiry, everything changed.  I stopped chasing something ‘out there.’  I no longer seek some future state of happiness or peace.  This is not to say that I don’t have problems, or ever experience pain. Quite the contrary. I still use the inquiries regularly, and now there is much less avoidance or resistance to what I’m experiencing. I experience more and more freedom in the present moment, exactly as it appears.

Having trained with Scott, I was one of the first to be certified as a Senior Living Inquiries Facilitator and Trainer in early 2012.  In 2014, I moved to CA to work with Scott at The Kiloby Center for Recovery, where we work with people suffering from addiction, anxiety, depression and more.  In early 2015, I became his business partner, and we are co-owners in the business.  Since then, we have developed additional inquiries, the Kiloby Inquires, to help our clients.

I work with clients all over the world on virtually any topic, including spiritual seeking, stress, anxiety, depression, traumatic historical experiences, relationship issues, addiction, compulsion, and general unhappiness with ourselves and our lives.  I do this through online sessions, deepening courses, workshops and facilitator certification training.  Those facing addiction are welcome to explore The Kiloby Center’s unique program. 

I can’t imagine my life without these inquiries.  They saved me from myself.  If you are still suffering, searching, longing… I encourage you to give this a try.

As a young child I saw a picture of Jesus gazing lovingly at some children around his feet. I immediately longed for the unconditional love I saw in his gaze. At the same time, I was being read fairy tales, like Cinderella, and came to believe that romantic love would satisfy that longing for love.

So, I married my handsome prince at age 19. But then, by age 29, I found myself alone, as a single mother, with four young children. I was devastated and convinced that something was terribly wrong with me, to have ended up in such a predicament. 

I had learned to love and please others, but not how to love and respect myself. I was a “good girl,” and repressed my urges to have my own needs acknowledged and met. A wise teacher later told me, “We need to love everyone, including ourselves.” This was an amazing revelation for me!

Learning to meditate helped immensely to bring moments of peace, while I was sitting still, though I was still being triggered regularly in my relationships. Finally, the Kiloby Inquiries taught me how to turn my attention inside in daily life – towards the trapped thoughts and emotions I’d been running from – so that I could face and release them. It was like some tender, lost children began coming home, to take their rightful place in my inner world. 

I am honored and excited to be able to facilitate these wonderful inquiries for others.

Sumitra lives on the Hawaiian island of Kauai with some of her family. She has four grown children and six grandchildren. For many years she lived and worked in a yoga retreat community in California, and has taught yoga, meditation and Compassionate Communication in addition to facilitating the tools of the Kiloby Inquiries (since 2013).

Sumitra also loves working with couples and others with relationship challenges in a simple (though not always easy) deep listening practice that allows each person to be truly heard and acknowledged.

Alina is a certified KI facilitator & a founder of Presence Alchemy – An advance mindfulness platform dedicated to liberating suffering & limiting core beliefs through Kiloby Inquiries & non-dual awareness. Presence Alchemy was born eight years into Alina’s embodiment journey of an inner shift from ego to wakefulness. Alina works one-on-one with clients, hosts online intensives and training, and organizes local retreats & workshops.
Alec Rodrigues has been certified to facilitate inquiry since 2015 and brings a keen sense of intuition to his work. He believes that in connection, the deepest healing takes place, that the mirror of relationship is the best crucible for transformation. Through rest and inquiry, Alec has found the empowerment to meet others authentically and stop running so damn fast from the seeming “ordinariness” of life.

He currently lives in Washington state with his girlfriend and works as a training assistant for the KI Personal Mentorship Program, where he empowers enrollees by teaching them the KI tools.