For Anyone Ready for a New Way of Treating Chronic Pain:

How I Went From Emergency Room Visits and Suicidal Thoughts to a Complete Reduction in my Chronic Pain

Using an Unexpected Method that Treats the Causes Western Medicine Pretends Don't Exist

Adapted from a 95-person online workshop, I share the exact mindsets and techniques I used to leave chronic nerve pain behind.

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Adapted from a 95-person online workshop, I share the exact mindsets and techniques I used to leave chronic nerve pain behind.

Hey, I’m Scott Kiloby. I’m a mindfulness and nonduality teacher with a powerful method for deconstructing your chronic pain.

My time with debilitating spine pain caught me by surprise. Looking back, the circumstances leading to that pain are obvious, but at that time, I couldn’t connect the dots.

All I knew was that my back started to hurt, and that pain wouldn’t let up. It just got worse and worse.

Then, one day, I went and got the diagnosis… I had spinal stenosis, a narrowing of the spinal column.

Wow, what a relief! I had the answer… or so I thought.

Long story short, the medication, the TENS machines, the postural exercises, the back inversion tables… these things only treated symptoms (and not for very long). Your mileage may vary, but if you’re anything like me or my clients, then nothing you’ve found gives you lasting relief.

Well, what I’ve discovered can give you more than just minor relief… it can actually eliminate your pain!

How did I get here?

After a spiritual awakening in 2007, I was surprised to find that “waking up” was not the endpoint… not by a longshot. I had to battle a rampant sex addiction. I had to face hidden traumas.

And more recently, I had to work through my chronic pain.

Not long after that awakening, in ’07, I developed a methodology based on Buddhist nondual inquiry that has helped me and thousands of others dissolve the beliefs, identities, and buried emotions that ran our lives.

Today, I’ve reimagined and further refined that methodology to co-develop the Kiloby Inquiries. These are powerful tools for dismantling the programming that drives our suffering. Anxiety, depression, addiction, self-hatred, and other states have been dissolved time and again through these tools.

Great, Scott... but what's that have to do with chronic pain?

Despite having co-developed the strongest tools I know for dismantling suffering, I couldn’t resolve my nerve pain. Why?

Because I held a pesky *belief* that stopped me…

It’s a belief that keeps chronic pain alive and well because it points us away from the real source.

I’m talking about the idea that chronic pain is JUST PHYSICAL. That my spinal pain was BECAUSE of my spinal stenosis. That it had everything to do with damaged vertebrae and nothing to do with the beliefs, repressed emotions, and traumas I didn’t know I still carried.

Think about it… the guy who co-developed a well-known methodology for dissolving mental and emotional suffering couldn’t see his beliefs around pain clearly. That all the beliefs stemming from his diagnosis led him to keep trying (and be disappointed by) physical solutions.

I couldn’t see that my belief in pain being purely physical was just that… a belief!

So, if we assume I’m on to something here (and the evidence is pretty convincing, in my opinion), this is a gigantic blindspot in the conventional treatment of chronic pain. It took me years to see it. And I suspect many, many others are victims of that same blind spot.

But it's not just me...

My inquiries have been helping clients get clear of their issues, including anxiety, depression, and addiction, for over a decade. Now, with new adjustments to my methodology, the Kiloby Inquiries, people are finding deep, lasting relief:
"Kiloby Inquiries made a massive leap to my anger issues and unacknowledged emotions. It isn't therapy but the result is felt way incomparable to any therapy that exists. It is simple, yet very effortlessly effective."
Leonard Bisquera
Manila, Philippines
"After 48 years of going to doctors, psychologists and psychiatrists, I finally have been given hope! My pain has diminished! I’m 78 years old - it is never too late to feel happiness and peace. I’ve been given a new life!!!!!"
Pat Coughlin Mawson
Sequim, WA
"Over 20 years of believing that my pain was physical, that’s a long time to live in the dark. ...the physical pain hasn’t returned once it left. Scott’s work is a breakthrough to say the least."
Mel L.
"Thank you, the inquiry helped so much. Because the emotions aren’t repressed, I don’t even have a migraine today or any other ailments."
Michelle P.

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KI for Chronic Pain Online Video Course
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  • Digging up the Worms
  • Layer 1: Managing Daily Stress and Pain
  • Layer 2: Addressing the Sources of Chronic Pain

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Frequently Asked Questions

The Kiloby Inquiries, or KI, is a method of investigating our experience to root out and see through the deep-seated beliefs and emotions that keep us stuck and suffering. Through my own struggles, I’ve learned to use KI to reduce and eventually eliminate chronic pain by addressing its actual source.
This course is for anyone who has tried and failed to resolve their chronic pain through conventional (or even unconventional) means. If you have chronic pain and you’re fed up, try this course.
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Please don’t take anything I say or suggest as medical advice. I’m not a doctor, so please consult yours. These methods are meant to be done in conjunction with your medical treatment, not in place of it.
Scott Kiloby is not responsible or liable for your interpretation of this material. He is a facilitator, not a doctor or therapist. You are encouraged to consult with your doctor or therapist with regard to this information contained here. After reading articles, watching videos or reading other content here, you are encouraged to review the information carefully with your professional healthcare provider.

The information provided on this site is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical or clinical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Never disregard professional medical or clinical advice, or delay in seeking it, because of something you have read or seen on this site. Never rely on information here in place of seeking professional medical or clinical advice.

Dan McLintock is a Certified Facilitator, Trainer and the Co-Developer of the Kiloby Inquiries method/approach the New Model of Recovery along w Scott Kiloby. 

A Jacksonville, Florida native, Dan graduated Flagler College in 2004 with B.A. in Theatre Arts and English Literature and has played music professionally in bands for over 20 years. But his true passion lies in sharing the context, possibility and practicality of healing, awakening and release. 

Dan has worked one-on-one with clients in and out of the Kiloby Center since 2017 and has an unconditionally loving and earnest approach to healing trauma, dissolving the drivers of addiction/suffering and unhooking long-held toxic beliefs about ourselves, others and the world at large. 

He’s also worked intensively, side-by-side with Scott Kiloby for the past three years to develop the transformative tools of the Kiloby Inquiries as well as the principles and approach of the “New Model of Recovery” rooted in unconditional love and non-judgment. Much of this approach was borne out of Scott and Dan’s work with each other on their own personal traumas as well as their work with clients at the Kiloby Center. 

Scott and Dan have simplified, demystified and condensed some of the principles and practices of eastern/non-dual spirituality into an easily accessible set of tools most anyone can understand, learn and utilize to free themselves from their own suffering. 

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What is a Clarity Call?

A clarity call is a free 30-minute introductory call with a Certified KI Facilitator. During a clarity call, you can ask any questions you have about KI and see whether a particular facilitator is a good fit for you.

To book a clarity call, select your preferred facilitator (hover over their picture and click the “Meet” button). Then, enter your email and click “Book Your Call.” From there, you’ll be able to select your preferred date and time and schedule your clarity call (please double-check your time zone before booking).

Note: Clarity calls, while free, require you to enter a credit card to book. If you are late or miss the scheduled meeting, you will be charged $49. This is to protect the facilitator’s time. You will be able to reschedule or cancel the appointment without charge with appropriate notice. The length of the required notice varies by facilitator. Please read the terms and conditions before booking your call.

Valerie Vinger is a thriving survivor of life’s painful challenges and growth opportunities. She has worked with 12-step programs and is currently a 13-year stage-III cancer survivor. Her cancer recovery journey started with the traditional “cut, poison, burn” approach but eventually led her down a natural path to healing her body, her pain and suffering, and her buried emotions.

Valerie first stumbled upon Scott Kiloby at a workshop of his in Boulder, Colorado in 2012, which she says is one of the most transformative experiences she’s ever had. She is filled with gratitude for the person she has become through her journey with cancer recovery and with the Inquiries, which she describes as “coming home to myself.” She loves working with people who are ready for relief from their pain and suffering.

Julianne Eanniello is a Kiloby Inquiries Facilitator and Certification Trainer, a founding Living Inquiries Facilitator and former trainer, Co-Founder and Clinical Director of the Kiloby Center for Recovery in Rancho Mirage CA, and a Certified TRE Practitioner.  About Julianne:

For most of my life I’ve wondered who I am and why I am here.  As I was growing up, no one else seemed to be talking about these things, or even thinking about them, so I buried it deep inside and tried my best to fit in the way I was “supposed” to, all the while feeling like there was something desperately wrong with me and that I needed to fix it.

In my early thirties, the death of a young relative left me feeling hopeless and helpless, wondering what is the point of life if we’re all just going to die anyway?  This launched me on a search.  I didn’t even know what I was looking for, I just knew that there was a longing – a desperate longing for something that actually made sense about life.  I learned several alternative spiritual and healing techniques.  I meditated.  I read books and watched videos.  I eventually learned of non-duality teachings, and I read more books, watched more videos, and even sat with several ‘awakened’ teachers.  Yet I was still searching, something still felt missing. I was looking for the key that would unlock the mystery of me and of life.

In my early forties, I developed a chronic health condition that left me unable to work for several years, and most days barely able to get out of bed due to extreme fatigue, brain fog and pain. I lost my banking job, and eventually lost my home.  I saw a multitude of doctors to try to find out what was wrong with me, and used every tool in my metaphysical and alternative medicine toolkit to try to heal myself. My seeking became even more intense, and I was looking for a way to escape my pain.

In 2009, I met Scott Kiloby.  Since I started working with him and doing the Living Inquiries, the seeking for enlightenment has stopped, and the question of ‘who am I’ is no longer relevant.  My victim stories around my health started falling away. Once I started looking at my experience with inquiry, everything changed.  I stopped chasing something ‘out there.’  I no longer seek some future state of happiness or peace.  This is not to say that I don’t have problems, or ever experience pain. Quite the contrary. I still use the inquiries regularly, and now there is much less avoidance or resistance to what I’m experiencing. I experience more and more freedom in the present moment, exactly as it appears.

Having trained with Scott, I was one of the first to be certified as a Senior Living Inquiries Facilitator and Trainer in early 2012.  In 2014, I moved to CA to work with Scott at The Kiloby Center for Recovery, where we work with people suffering from addiction, anxiety, depression and more.  In early 2015, I became his business partner, and we are co-owners in the business.  Since then, we have developed additional inquiries, the Kiloby Inquires, to help our clients.

I work with clients all over the world on virtually any topic, including spiritual seeking, stress, anxiety, depression, traumatic historical experiences, relationship issues, addiction, compulsion, and general unhappiness with ourselves and our lives.  I do this through online sessions, deepening courses, workshops and facilitator certification training.  Those facing addiction are welcome to explore The Kiloby Center’s unique program. 

I can’t imagine my life without these inquiries.  They saved me from myself.  If you are still suffering, searching, longing… I encourage you to give this a try.

As a young child I saw a picture of Jesus gazing lovingly at some children around his feet. I immediately longed for the unconditional love I saw in his gaze. At the same time, I was being read fairy tales, like Cinderella, and came to believe that romantic love would satisfy that longing for love.

So, I married my handsome prince at age 19. But then, by age 29, I found myself alone, as a single mother, with four young children. I was devastated and convinced that something was terribly wrong with me, to have ended up in such a predicament. 

I had learned to love and please others, but not how to love and respect myself. I was a “good girl,” and repressed my urges to have my own needs acknowledged and met. A wise teacher later told me, “We need to love everyone, including ourselves.” This was an amazing revelation for me!

Learning to meditate helped immensely to bring moments of peace, while I was sitting still, though I was still being triggered regularly in my relationships. Finally, the Kiloby Inquiries taught me how to turn my attention inside in daily life – towards the trapped thoughts and emotions I’d been running from – so that I could face and release them. It was like some tender, lost children began coming home, to take their rightful place in my inner world. 

I am honored and excited to be able to facilitate these wonderful inquiries for others.

Sumitra lives on the Hawaiian island of Kauai with some of her family. She has four grown children and six grandchildren. For many years she lived and worked in a yoga retreat community in California, and has taught yoga, meditation and Compassionate Communication in addition to facilitating the tools of the Kiloby Inquiries (since 2013).

Sumitra also loves working with couples and others with relationship challenges in a simple (though not always easy) deep listening practice that allows each person to be truly heard and acknowledged.

Alina is a certified KI facilitator & a founder of Presence Alchemy – An advance mindfulness platform dedicated to liberating suffering & limiting core beliefs through Kiloby Inquiries & non-dual awareness. Presence Alchemy was born eight years into Alina’s embodiment journey of an inner shift from ego to wakefulness. Alina works one-on-one with clients, hosts online intensives and training, and organizes local retreats & workshops.
Alec Rodrigues has been certified to facilitate inquiry since 2015 and brings a keen sense of intuition to his work. He believes that in connection, the deepest healing takes place, that the mirror of relationship is the best crucible for transformation. Through rest and inquiry, Alec has found the empowerment to meet others authentically and stop running so damn fast from the seeming “ordinariness” of life.

He currently lives in Washington state with his girlfriend and works as a training assistant for the KI Personal Mentorship Program, where he empowers enrollees by teaching them the KI tools.