Bio and Site Information
About Scott
Scott Kiloby is the author of "Love's Quiet Revolution: The End of the Spiritual Search" and "Reflections of the One Life: Daily Pointers to Enlightenment." He is also the creator of an addiction/recovery method called Natural Rest. His book, "Natural Rest: Finding Recovery Through Presence," is scheduled for release in early 2011.
Scott's main website is www.kiloby.com. It contains writings, videos, and audio interviews with a wide diversity of teachers, authors, scientists, and psychologists. Scott also has a blog at www.living-realization.blogspot.com. This site contains a text written by Scott called Living Realization, which has been popular.
Scott travels across the U.S. and overseas giving talks in which those attending experience nondual presence. In these meetings, every position and belief gets challenged, including every belief about the self, others, and the world, and also all of our ideas about spirituality. This leaves those attending completely open to allow the present moment to unfold in a new way, free of identification with thought. The point of the meetings is allow each person attending to go home and discover for themselves the freedom Scott's message is pointing to.
Scott also has live meetings on the internet (see Meetings page).
About this Site
We live our lives asleep. Our minds are programmed for self-centeredness. This programming causes us to spend our lives seeking the future for a sense of contentment we can't seem to find. It causes conflict in our relationships.
To say that we live in self-centeredness and conflict is not a moral judgment. It's a statement of fact. Look around. The good news is that awakening from this self-centered dream is possible in this lifetime. This awakening reveals a depth of freedom and contentment that no relationship, job, material item, self-improvement plan, or other worldly accomplishment can bring. This level of freedom frees us from our endless seeking towards future. It frees us from conflict so that our real nature as love shines through, into every area of life.
We believe we are separate selves. It's a belief system. That is all. No one told us this in school. Our teachers did not tell us the truth because they didn't know. Our parents didn't know either. So we've inherited this sense of separation. It goes unexamined throughout our whole lives . . . until a desire to know the truth arises. If that desire has arisen for you, check out this site.
This is about truly waking up out of the self-centered dream of being a separate person. In that awakening, the wholeness that we've been seeking in the future and in worldly things reveals itself to be ever present. Every experience is accepted and loved as it is.
This site is about seeing through this belief in separation. In the simple recognition of presence as our true nature, we go from being self-centered to being selfless. That makes all the difference. That seeing is what life is all about. It's why we are here on earth.
This freedom can never be captured by words. It cannot be known as a belief or a mental position. It is much too simple. It is your very presence. In looking for it in the future, or in ideas about yourself, others, or the world, it is missed. In relaxing completely into the present moment, you see that it was never lost. It is always and already here.
Come and find out what we're talking about! The live meetings and one-to-one sharings are spontaneous, open, and unpredictable. We never know what is going to pop up!
For those who like more structure on this topic, check out Living Realization (nondual pointing) and the Natural Rest sharing (recovery from addiction). This more deliberate language allows you to take pointed language and look into your present experience in a very deep and specific way. Click HERE for Living Realization. Click HERE for Natural Rest addiction/recovery.