Scott Kiloby - Reflections of the One Life

In One Awakened Day

Sun, 12 May 2013 19:23:01

Seeing No Separate Other

Sun, 12 May 2013 09:29:58

Foreword for Natural Rest Book by Jeff Foster

Sun, 12 May 2013 09:02:55

The Natural Rest for Addiction book has been printed. We are now waiting to complete the interactive website. Stay tuned.. Here's the Foreword for the book by Jeff Foster.

Survival Mechanisms That Were Killing Me

Thu, 18 Apr 2013 04:25:13

Freedom from the Next Screen of Concepts

Mon, 15 Apr 2013 04:24:53

Self-Deceptions in Addiction

Sun, 31 Mar 2013 12:01:35

A list of pitfalls to avoid when it comes to addiction.

Forgiveness

Sat, 23 Mar 2013 22:54:30

Em-body-ment and the Inquiries

Thu, 21 Mar 2013 07:06:47

With the Inquiries, as you move through the process of not being able to find the self, you fail to find it in the words and pictures that arise as well as the emotions and sensations. And in not finding that self anywhere, you have gone through everything. You have bypassed nothing. You have seen that there is no need to embody anything. Everything has already been embodied in that looking.

Creativity and Happiness

Wed, 20 Mar 2013 07:21:42

Happiness is simpler than you think

The Ghost Image is the Real Culprit in Addiction

Tue, 19 Mar 2013 06:00:45

With the Compulsion Inquiry, the Living Inquiries Facilitators do not focus on helping people use willpower or control to stop an addiction. They focus on showing people how to spot the ghost image and the bodily energy and diffuse them both. This is a highly successful technique. When the ghost image is either no longer arising or arising without any bodily energy with it, the addiction or compulsion naturally releases either all at once or gradually. People don’t quit addictions then. The addictions quit them.

Join Us at Compulsion Intensives Across the U.S. and Canada

Mon, 18 Mar 2013 09:33:20

Scott is conducting “Freedom from Compulsion” Intensives, based on his Compulsion Inquiry. The Compulsion Inquiry (CI) was developed by Scott and Colette Kelso using the basic tools from Scott’s book, “Natural Rest for Addiction.” Colette will also be leading the meetings and facilitations at these Intensives.

The Delight of Unfindability

Fri, 15 Mar 2013 14:48:51

You are free, free, free in a way you can’t describe and unable to find the one who is free. As the delight of unfindability shows up, marvel at the fact that it’s a delight and that you can’t find the delight either.

Quotes on Addiction

Tue, 12 Mar 2013 09:54:06

This is a list of quotes taken from talks, writings, the Natural Rest book, videos and other resources where I have talked about addiction.

Boredom and Addiction

Wed, 13 Feb 2013 08:18:43

Boredom goes hand in hand with addiction. Here's a way of relaxing boredom, and therefore relaxing addiction.

Why I Focus on the Living Inquiries Now

Sun, 20 Jan 2013 04:18:19

This writing explains why I have switched from talking about awakening to inviting people into the direct experience of it through the Living Inquiries.

NEW: The Unfindable Inquiry

Sun, 23 Dec 2012 22:15:55

VIDEO
This is a demonstration of one of the LIVING INQUIRIES by Scott Kiloby. Watch as Scott takes Elizabeth through the "Unfindable Inquiry" in this private session. In sessions the client tries to find the "invisible self" using the UI. They cannot find it and so they find a release from that core sense of self. *These inquiries invite us to notice when we are experiencing separate objects and then actively inquire into what thoughts, emotions, and sensations make up the object. In looking for the separate object (but only finding individual arisings such as thoughts, emotions, and sensation), we see through the belief in separation—through the belief that there is a separate object there at all. Come and explore these inquiries with us!

Addiction (Seeing the Inner and Outer as Inseparable)

Sun, 18 Nov 2012 19:53:59

This article discusses the challenges of tobacco addiction and how looking at both the inner unrest of mind and body as well as outward behavior is a sane approach to all addictions, including tobacco.

Natural Rest Coming in Early 2013

Sat, 10 Nov 2012 15:56:06

To get a good view of whether certain compulsions tend to run your life, sit quietly for two hours each morning or night just watching your mind constantly looking for something to do or something to ingest. See if that is uncomfortable for you. See if your mind is busy searching for something and your body feels restless quite often during that two hours. This reveals where addiction shows up for you. But you don't have to be a slave to it.

Interview with Nina Carmel (Part 1)

Sat, 3 Nov 2012 06:22:37

This was a fascinating conversation for me. Nina brings a new twist with her perspective on the spiritual/satsang scene and the teacher/student relationship. Many of her insights have mirrored mine, after being a part of this scene for a while. I think you will find this conversation interesting, and perhaps a bit controversial . . . but definitely enlightening in its own way.

Interview with Nina Carmel (Part 2)

Sat, 3 Nov 2012 06:12:10

Part 2 of my discussion with Nina. Further refining the points mentioned in the first part of the interview.

A Manifesto for a New Recovery

Sat, 18 Aug 2012 20:12:49

Does that mean life becomes boring and lifeless?

Beyond Addiction to Temporal Objects

Sun, 5 Aug 2012 03:47:45

Complimentary video from the Science and Nonduality Conference on FORA.tv

Deconstructing the Teacher Using the UI

Sun, 1 Jul 2012 10:44:20

This audio uses the Unfindable Inquiry to deconstruct the notion of a separate authority or teacher, which makes us either follow or fight blindly in relationship.

After the Fall

Wed, 27 Jun 2012 07:25:39

What Happens After an Awakening Experience?

Introduction to Natural Rest (Part 2)

Thu, 24 May 2012 09:26:57

Live talk at Integrative Wellness Fair

Introduction to Natural Rest (Part 1)

Thu, 24 May 2012 09:03:16

Live talk at the Integrative Wellness Fair in Eaton, New Hampshire

Freedom Is

Tue, 24 Apr 2012 14:23:54

Incomprehensibly Simple

Mon, 26 Mar 2012 19:06:19

Is life One? It doesn’t seem to be counting. One is an idea. Is life Two? There’s no counting here by the lake. This is incomprehensible. This is too simple to even call it One, or two. Is this the present moment? Ha, that’s a funny thought . . .

Morning Meditation (Unfinding the Addict)

Sun, 11 Mar 2012 06:54:06

This is a 22 minute meditation that can be done daily (e.g., each morning). It is based on Scott's Unfindable Inquiry. In this meditation, Scott gently invites you to see through "the person who desires." Be Patient. Try this meditation out each morning for several weeks.

Transformation (Seeing through the world, not negating it)

Sat, 3 Mar 2012 12:51:31

This is an audio from Scott, discussing the difference between negating and denying the world and thought and seeing through these things.

Don't Sell Yourself Short

Thu, 9 Feb 2012 09:26:35

Yes, awareness is here, unchanged, undisturbed and totally free of whatever arises. And yes, everything arises, giving you the unique experience of your own life, unfolding in the present moment, more and more without the sense that you are a story. This may seem contradictory to the mind. It’s a beautiful paradox that must be experienced to be appreciated. Don’t sell yourself short.

Reality Tunnels

Sun, 5 Feb 2012 08:08:52

If I believe that I am a person whose thoughts present reality the way it really is, I am looking through a tunnel. And that tunnel makes no room for other tunnels. No two tunnels have ever met. They cannot meet because, by their very nature, they are trying to explain reality, sum it up, and package it through ideas. They are tunnels, after all. And tunnels cannot see outside themselves.

Like a Breeze

Fri, 3 Feb 2012 15:46:24

Be the air and let all versions of the story "There is something wrong with me" breeze through you.

Happiness Is Inevitable and Inescapable

Wed, 25 Jan 2012 21:46:29

Recipe for happiness: Love all thoughts, emotions, and sensations as they arise. They make up the things you see, from self, to other, to everything else. So when you love them, you love everything you see.

Love!

Sat, 14 Jan 2012 06:54:37

VIDEO
What happens when we no longer try to medicate pain and it's fully allowed to be? That changes everything in relationship. We go from believing that love is contained in only certain people or things, to seeing it everywhere. Let this be an invitation to take the words beyond just some trite spiritual saying, and to find this actually showing up in experience.

Can the Heart Be this Open?

Sun, 8 Jan 2012 16:48:41

Can I hold open the possibility that what others say or think about reality is what they are genuinely experiencing, or else they would not say or think that?

Basic Tools 2 - The Living Inquiries

Sat, 24 Dec 2011 09:39:11

In all my years of meeting with people, nothing has been as effective as these Living Inquiries. The Living Inquiries are tools that may be difficult to learn to use on your own at first. But once you meet with myself or a facilitator, you are able to use them in your own experience quite naturally.

The Voice In Your Head - Is That You?

Sat, 10 Dec 2011 06:13:07

This is an introductory writing. It explains what this site is about in the simplest terms. At the end of the writing, there is a link to Living Realization, in case you are ready to go deeper.

Come Out of the Deficiency Closet

Sun, 4 Dec 2011 20:15:17

VIDEO
The sense of a separate, deficient self shows up in all sorts of ways in our lives, mainly in relationship. Instead of trying to fix everyone else or seek love and other things from them, the invitation here is to go deeper into a present seeing of the emptiness of the deficient self, no matter how it shows up (e.g. "I'm not good enough," "I'm unlovable," "I'm imperfect.")

Scott Kiloby, The Wholeness Imperative (Richard Miller Interview)

Tue, 22 Nov 2011 07:41:29

VIDEO
In this video, Richard and I stretch beyond the normal reaches of awareness language, into how deep one's realization can go, including relationship and the world, as illusory as it is.

The Deficient Self, A Believable Illusion

Tue, 15 Nov 2011 06:34:43

This is an excerpt from Scott's upcoming book "Living Relationship."

Love Is Naturally Present When You No Longer Buy Into the Story "I'm Deficient."

Sun, 6 Nov 2011 07:13:33

Love is quite natural really. Instead of trying to cultivate it as a thing, notice that it is already here once you see through the story, “I am a separate, deficient person.”

Greg Goode, Emptiness, Part 2

Fri, 28 Oct 2011 09:13:27

Part 2 of a two-part series. Scott speaks to Greg Goode about Madhyamaka Emptiness teachings. Greg sets it out clearly. This emptiness teaching is a nice alternative to awareness styled teachings. Greg is working on a fresh new approach that uses Western sources in addition to Buddhist sources, coming soon . . . Check out Greg at www.heartofnow.com

Greg Goode, Emptiness, Part 1

Thu, 27 Oct 2011 06:04:20

Part 1 of a two-part series. Scott speaks to Greg Goode about Madhyamaka Emptiness teachings. Greg sets it out clearly. This emptiness teaching is a nice alternative to awareness styled teachings. Greg is working on a fresh new approach that uses Western sources in addition to Buddhist sources, coming soon . . . Check out Greg at www.heartofnow.com

Basic Tools 1 - Keeping It Simple

Wed, 5 Oct 2011 13:46:45

This page contains the simplest pointers I use in private sessions and group online and live talks. Check it out before we meet. This keeps it simple!

Wake Up and Then Clean Up the Mess (Dialogue with Hugh Osborne)

Sun, 25 Sep 2011 09:01:50

Scott Kiloby talks with Hugh Osborne about recovery and non-dual presence.

Relax!

Sun, 18 Sep 2011 17:36:38

VIDEO
Take a good look at present experience and see that there is nothing to seek.

Love (In Formlessness and Form)

Tue, 13 Sep 2011 21:42:05

Join me in waking up and waking down. I’ll meet you where you are.

Asleep in the Void (Bigness Sickness)

Tue, 13 Sep 2011 14:29:32

This writing probably won't resonate with most people. It's designed to speak to just a select few (you know who you are) who are experiencing what I'm describing below.

Jeff Foster and Scott Kiloby, Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Nonduality (But Were Afraid to Ask)

Thu, 8 Sep 2011 07:58:04

Jeff and Scott reconvene in their ongoing dialogue about freedom. They don't purport to be experts. There is no ultimate authority. But they are experts in their own experience, like everyone else. And in this discussion, they speak about their experience, running the full gamut between notions of Absolute and relative and all things in between. July 2011

The Naked Freefall

Mon, 22 Aug 2011 08:26:07

When you experience the collapse of everything you know, you fall in love with experience, with living, even with appearances such as people, trees, thoughts, emotions, and sensations. You see that these are fictions of mind but you enjoy them anyway. You open your mouth to talk about yourself, others, and the world, knowing that it is illusory, but enjoying it anyway. You continue moving, unfolding, and discovering life, but now with a wink and a nudge, as you experience the irony, paradox, compassion, freedom and love in seeing that there are no people or things, and yet everywhere you go there are people and things. The mind can't grasp this. It can only be lived. Don't settle for anything less than direct experience. This is juicy! Entrenched beliefs about awakening or philosophical truths cannot give you this juice. You must drink it up yourself. See it in your own experience.

Slumbering Spiritual Organizations

Mon, 15 Aug 2011 06:22:29

It is easy to fall asleep in an organization, dozing into the hypnotic lure of the language, turning the words that were meant to awaken us into beliefs that become our identity. The ideas become who we are on some level. The irony is both sad and delicious. We often claim to be awake and free of limiting identities through our participation in an organization, but instead we are as blind as bats to our own slumber.

The Up and Down of Nonduality

Wed, 3 Aug 2011 12:05:51

If you are really interested in the deepest liberation, would you want to settle for anything less than the complete seeing through of all separation along with the inclusion of this wonderful gift of diversity? Why throw out the baby with the bathwater? Why throw out the content with the realization of consciousness? Why throw out the appearances with the realization of awareness? To include both is the up and down of nonduality.

Bentinho Massaro and Scott Kiloby, June 2011

Mon, 1 Aug 2011 18:57:42

This is one of the most unique and fresh Kilologues so far. See Bentinho's site at www.free-awareness.com.

Emptiness Teachings with Susan Kahn

Tue, 12 Jul 2011 13:20:27

This is an great interview with Susan Kahn about a particular school of Buddhism (Madhyamaka) that isn't well known in modern nondual circles. It's a unique approach (unlike Advaita and more well-known nondual teachings). Check it out. Her site is www.emptinessteachings.com

Bluff, Fluff, and Stuff

Mon, 20 Jun 2011 09:21:37

Bluff, Fluff, and Stuff are the three categories I used on the spiritual path to determine what was most useful to me for purposes of awakening. Take a look!

Freedom in the Workplace

Thu, 26 May 2011 06:27:27

Jeff Munn from Corporate Zendo and Scott talk about how (or whether) freedom transforms the workplace. What is a corporate identity? Is it like an ego? They discuss these questions and many others. See Jeff's site called "Corporate Zendo" at http://corporatezendo.blogspot.com

The Story of Postponement

Sun, 22 May 2011 03:53:32

What are you waiting for?

Essay on Human Things

Fri, 20 May 2011 06:40:15

The movement to get rid of anything only solidifies it. By treating it as a ‘thing,’ we give it a power it does not have. We label it, talk about it, tell stories about it, and reach into the mind and into books and self-help techniques to find ways to get rid of it. All of this is a movement to turn away from what is really happening in our bodies. What is happening is energy arising. When we observe that energy, without labeling it, and allow it to be as it is, it naturally dissolves away.

The Completeness Series: Emotions

Thu, 12 May 2011 08:27:48

VIDEO
When we no longer turn away from emotions and instead, let them be as they are, we see that emotions are already the completeness of experience.

The Completeness Series: The Need for Love

Thu, 12 May 2011 08:20:22

VIDEO
We look for love outside ourselves because of a sense of incompleteness. Completeness is always with us, if we just look in a different way. This changes everything!

Robert Masters, Spiritual Bypassing

Sun, 8 May 2011 16:19:40

Interesting conversation about the the myriad of ways we avoid and bypass basic personal issues in the rush to spiritual awakening.

Stop and Observe

Thu, 5 May 2011 17:56:28

The next time you find yourself lost in the story of “me,” STOP. Observe that story. Notice that what you really are is this observing. The story is just something that appeared to this observing capacity. You can actually choose not to follow that story or any other story that arises. You can choose to stop and recognize yourself as this observing itself.

The Peace Experiment

Sun, 24 Apr 2011 08:29:05

Make it viral! Change the world by seeing through the self, which is the only war.

Doorway To Total Liberation (Now Available)

Sat, 23 Apr 2011 07:09:16

The seeing through of the sense of “I want” is complete freedom. It’s not a state. It’s a realization in which we find ourselves perfectly in the flow of life, able to have all sorts of thoughts, make all sorts of plans, build and create all sorts of things, be in all sorts of relationships . . . but without the force of self behind those movements. It’s that force of ego or self-will behind our movements in the world that creates the suffering, seeking, and conflict in our lives. This inquiry leaves us with the capacity to want, but without attachment to the outcome of our wants. This writing is a set of excerpts from Scott's e-book called "Doorway to Total Liberation."

Mandi Solk, January 2011

Tue, 29 Mar 2011 09:25:46

The delightful Mandi Solk shares about freedom! Check out www.mandisolk.com

Recovery-A New Paradigm

Fri, 11 Feb 2011 08:20:25

Through resting in presence, and allowing all thoughts, emotions, and sensations to be as they are, the addict begins to experience a newfound freedom to not follow each thought, emotion, or sensation that arises. Through resting in presence, the pull towards the object or towards the future can dissolve away on its own. This approach to recovery is more helpful than developing a better story or ego. This approach helps the addict see through the ego itself. It helps the addict see through the sense of separation. When the addict no longer identifies with thoughts, the thoughts are allowed to come through freely and uninterruptedly. But the clinging to those thoughts for a sense of self releases itself. In that release, the addict stops seeing himself as an object, cut off and separate from other objects "out there." Therefore the seeking towards those objects releases itself. And the incessant, over-active thinking relaxes. Through presence, the addict experiences a quiet mind. That quiet mind is like a warm bath that embraces him in all situations, providing a sense of freedom, peace, and well-being. When the addict experiences real freedom, peace, and well-being, the need for a fix dissolves away. And the need to identify himself as an addict or "sick person" falls away too.

The Value of One-on-One

Fri, 11 Feb 2011 06:08:17

One on one sessions are where an individual's particularized beliefs and stuck points are addressed most directly.

Beyond Separation in Relationship

Sun, 16 Jan 2011 06:09:11

In the moment you find yourself in conflict, instead of going straight to these first tendencies, take a moment of rest. Relax into the spacious openness of awareness. See that what you are in the most basic sense is this awareness. In awareness, an assumption is happening. The assumption is that there is a self and an other in conflict. So go look for the other. Is the other the thought of the person’s name? Look directly at the person’s name in your mind. Look at the letters of the name, one by one. Is THAT thought the person? No.

Interview with Scott on Buddha at the Gas Pump

Thu, 13 Jan 2011 08:02:54

VIDEO
This is an interview with Scott from Buddha at the Gas Pump. In this interview, Scott explains the full message of awakening, to be both not of the world and in the world.

DIS-ease Video Clip from Stillness Speaks

Tue, 11 Jan 2011 12:11:30

VIDEO
Stillnessspeaks.com just interviewed Scott. The full video is coming out soon. Here is a clip on DIS-ease.

Unfindable Objects (A One-Two Punch)

Sun, 2 Jan 2011 05:19:49

If you are interested in working with me in this process called "Unfindable Things," email me at scottkiloby@aol.com to set up a phone or skype chat. Or visit the contacts page of this site. In addition, the Living Realization text has a detailed explanation of this process in it.

Fear

Thu, 23 Dec 2010 06:24:13

Fear is more than just bunch of thoughts you are having about the future. It is an entire body and mind experience involving thoughts, emotions, and sensations. Emotions are the fuel for the stories about the future that run through our heads. The key is to become aware of the emotional and sensory energy in the body when you are experiencing fear. And these thoughts, emotions, and sensations are happening within your capacity to be aware. So this is all about recognizing awareness as the space in which thoughts, emotions, and sensations come and go.

The Wisdom in Conflict

Tue, 21 Dec 2010 09:02:03

This is an excerpt from a new text Scott is writing called "Living Relationship."

Excerpts from the New and Revised Living Realization

Sun, 19 Dec 2010 06:41:13

Living Realization is Scott's main way of sharing the message of non-duality. The revised text is finished and the new Living Realization website is up. Visit www.livingrealization.org. Living Realization online meetings are happening now also. See the site for details. For details regarding all upcoming Living Realization events, sign up for the Newsletter on the front page of this site. Here are some excerpts from the new text.

NEW The Middle Way, Part 1

Sat, 11 Dec 2010 10:26:34

VIDEO
The Middle Way is freedom from dualistic extremes. It is freedom from fixed viewpoints about yourself, others, and the world. But it is also freedom from fixed viewpoints that there is no self, no other, and no world. It is freedom from fixed views such as "everything exists separately" and "nothing exists." Freedom from "I am a separate person" and from "All is Oneness," as fixed views. It is freedom from personal viewpoints and impersonal viewpoints. It is freedom from relying exclusively on thinking in your life. Yet it is freedom from denying thought altogether. The Middle Way is, ultimately, the view of this site and Scott's message. Scott's Living Realization text is a Middle Way view. When you have no fixed conception of reality, every viewpoint is allowed to be just as it is. You are not stuck in the belief in separation, yet you do not deny conventional existence. All of this may or may not sound really heavy, conceptual, or transcendent, but it is what the great traditions have talked about for centuries. In Zen, it is the "return to the marketplace." In Advaita, it is Shankara's "Brahman is the World." And in Buddhism, it is the Middle Way. In the Middle Way, love, compassion, joy, peace, and freedom are your constant companions.

NEW The Middle Way, Part 2

Sat, 11 Dec 2010 10:24:24

VIDEO
Second video in a two part series, view Part 1 first

Suzanne Foxton, December 2010

Thu, 9 Dec 2010 16:23:08

This is my chat with the lovely Suzanne Foxton. She has a deliciously simple message! Enjoy! Her website is http://nothingexistsdespiteappearances.blogspot.com/

The Middle Way

Thu, 25 Nov 2010 06:28:46

Living Realization is the phrase I use to refer to what some Buddhists call “The Middle Way.” It is the way of no extreme views. That is the message on this site, in a nutshell. It is definitely the message of the revised Living Realization. So when you think this is about transcending all duality, it is. It absolutely and totally is, in every way. And when you think this is about embracing humannness and diversity, it is. It absolutely and totally is, in every way.

Spiritual Bubbles

Mon, 22 Nov 2010 07:28:16

A story of humanity's awakening

Bentinho Massaro Interview, November 2010

Sat, 20 Nov 2010 05:55:52

This is my interview with Bentinho Massaro. His site is www.free-awareness.com. Bentinho gives us crystal clear talk about being free in this lifetime. There is a level of maturity here that is quite rare, especially at the end where he talks of always being within a conceptual reality even though awareness is ever present.

Jerry Katz Interview, October 2010

Fri, 19 Nov 2010 05:20:15

I call Jerry the forefather of modern, internet nonduality. His site is www.nonduality.com. Here we discuss the latest rumblings on this topic, and how it seems to be reaching a larger audience.

What Does the "Me" Thought Refer To?

Sun, 7 Nov 2010 16:35:36

A simple question that changes everything.

Shadows

Tue, 2 Nov 2010 07:14:41

The "shadow" is a term coined by Carl Jung. It is born out of Western Psychology. Eastern teachings do not speak of shadows. Scott, in his own spiritual path, and in meeting with people from all over the world, has found that many of the issues that pop up on the nondual path are really shadows. This is why he incorporates shadow work into his message. This writing is a detailed explanation of shadows as well as an explanation of the 3-2-1 Shadow process, developed by the Integral Institute.

Can You Find a Separate Object?

Tue, 19 Oct 2010 05:36:06

Audio of Scott inviting us to look into our experience to see if the objects we take to be existing as separate things on their "own side" are really thoughts, emotions, and sensations appearing to awareness.

Gina Lake, October 2010

Tue, 19 Oct 2010 05:08:58

Here is my KiloLogue with Gina Lake. Radicalhappiness.com. Enjoy!

Does silence equal nonduality? A message from Scott

Sun, 17 Oct 2010 10:55:11

These mp3s on the KiloLogues page where Scott is talking, alone, are mixed in a studio and therefore a good quality for ipods. This one deals with the question of whether nonduality is silence.

Painful Emotions Mix

Fri, 8 Oct 2010 06:36:07

This is Scott's music project, "Voice in Head" playing music to a talk Scott gave on Painful Emotions.

Westerly Meeting, September 2010

Wed, 29 Sep 2010 17:57:53

Here is an audio recording of a recent meeting of Scott's in Westerly, Rhode Island. This is about inquiring into what, within us, resists complete freedom.

How We Define Ourselves

Sat, 11 Sep 2010 20:07:47

Whatever the words freedom, love, and peace are pointing to, they do not need to be defended. They are not personal traits. These things are available to anyone who is willing to see through ego, instead of feeding it with reactions. There is no one who can claim freedom, love, and peace to the exclusion of others. So the walls we create through our reactions for or against others (or through neutrality) are not about freedom, love, and peace at all. These walls are for the ego itself. Seeing this whenever it arises is all that is needed. In seeing it, we are already free of it. We see that these are just thoughts and, although thoughts appear to create real boundaries, it is just an appearance. Those divisions aren’t really there. They are facades created by a self that is based in fear-the fear of no longer existing, no longer being someone against something else.

Problem Inquiry

Mon, 6 Sep 2010 17:09:40

Check out this inquiry

The Flow

Fri, 3 Sep 2010 16:38:09

Your very effort to awaken and your very movement to control life are already the flow itself. They cannot bring about the flow. They are already it.

Tom and Blythe, A Play

Mon, 30 Aug 2010 06:33:45

A Play about Truth

Can we hear each other? (Kilobit)

Tue, 24 Aug 2010 20:15:09

What does it mean to really listen? An audio from Scott

Dog Fighting...over a non-existent bone

Tue, 24 Aug 2010 13:48:08

A Play about viewpoints.

Painful Emotions (Kilobit)

Mon, 23 Aug 2010 19:35:34

Audio from Scott. Anger is love. Fear is love. What is it like when we stop believing that enlightenment is about a pain-free existence? Then everything that appears is perfect, just because it is appearing. A story of self can never see that. Look from the place that is not a story.

Awareness is the World

Sat, 21 Aug 2010 12:55:23

Now notice that the nothingness that is there when no thoughts are appearing is not separate from the something that arises when thought arises. In other words, when no thought is arising, the world is gone. When a thought arises, a thing arises. When many thoughts are arising in a series, one after another, the world of things is appearing. There is no line between the space or nothingness of no thought and the appearance of a thought. To say that a line exists between those things is to rely on a thought that is arising. Only thought creates separation. So there is no awareness apart and separate from the world as it appears.

Interview with Scott at Conscious TV

Tue, 17 Aug 2010 06:05:28

VIDEO
While Scott was in London in August 2010, he was interviewed by the gracious folks at Conscious TV. Take a look.

Disappearing Part 2

Thu, 12 Aug 2010 03:51:56

VIDEO
Part 2 in a two part series called "Disappearing"

Disappearing Part 1

Thu, 12 Aug 2010 03:48:21

VIDEO
When words like silence, awareness, and consciousness are still mental positions. Seeing through those positions can be challenging but freeing

Uniqueness

Tue, 10 Aug 2010 18:33:02

In the end, the line between non-duality and duality is seen to be just another division that breaks down, leaving us right here, where we started, in the place where there is no beginning or end. The present moment, playing the characters of you and me, knowing that they aren’t separate, yet playing anyway. Life is play. It is love. It is joy. If Nonduality outlaws any of that, it isn’t worth saying another word about.

KiloLogue with Matt Kahn, July 2010

Sun, 1 Aug 2010 06:27:27

Matt Kahn (Ganesh Das) is an American-born spiritual teacher who offers sacred heart wisdom to awaken the joy of liberated existence in the lives of all. After receiving a shaktipat transmission and a direct blessing from Ram Dass to teach, Matt, along with his partner - meditation guide and yoga teacher, Julie Dittmar, travel the world, inviting seekers of all faiths to discover their true divine nature. http://www.TrueDivineNature.com

About This Site

Thu, 22 Jul 2010 13:36:55

Scott's message is simple. You don't have to suffer anymore or seek happiness outside yourself in or in the future. All that you seek is already here.

Body Identification and Separation

Wed, 21 Jul 2010 07:34:24

This is a one on one consult that gets into the issue of body identification and separation in time and space.

Oneness

Tue, 20 Jul 2010 14:25:30

In this rest, you come to see that Oneness isn't some big bang experience. It is not some ongoing feeling of perfect bliss. It is peace of mind. It is knowing that, no matter what happens, all is well. This is what you are really looking for, isn't it? You are looking for this well-being. It's in thought-free presence. It's right there. See for yourself.

Part 2, Jeff Foster and Scott Kiloby Meeting, July 2010

Mon, 12 Jul 2010 06:10:14

Part 2 of the meeting between Jeff and Scott in July.

Part 1, Jeff Foster and Scott Kiloby Meeting, July 2010

Mon, 12 Jul 2010 06:02:12

Jeff Foster and Scott held a teleconference meeting on July 11, 2010. Many joined. There will be more meetings like this in the future. Check the meetings page of this site or Jeff's site for details. This meeting covers a wide ranger of topics. The main theme is "seeing through the seeker." Jeff and Scott were joined by special guest Rick Linchitz

The Way It Really Is

Sun, 11 Jul 2010 08:06:46

Let's take a look . . .

Pain, Pleasure, and Everything in Between

Fri, 2 Jul 2010 08:50:10

This is a freedom that does not look for life to appear a certain way. It doesn’t look for the absence of appearances. It isn’t about escaping. It isn't about no longer feeling or thinking. This is absolute freedom precisely because the need to control the natural flow of thoughts, emotions, states, and experiences is totally gone. That controller is the self. Seeing through the self means seeing through the belief that your experience needs to be manipulated. In the absence of that movement to control and manipulate the appearances or change them or tell stories about how they aren’t supposed to be appearing, there is perfect love and acceptance of life just the way it is happening—right now.

Spiritual Awakening Is Not a Hidden Secret

Thu, 17 Jun 2010 19:05:31

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Simple, direct talk about spiritual awakening. How we avoid it and how we find it as already here (presence itself).

Experiential Freedom

Tue, 8 Jun 2010 08:10:36

Ultimately, the freedom talked about on this website is not about holding onto anything called awareness or nothingness. It is much more fluid than that, like a flowing river that excludes nothing in life.

Brahman is the World, Part 3

Tue, 4 May 2010 17:25:05

VIDEO
Part 3 of this series

Brahman is the World, Part 2

Tue, 4 May 2010 17:24:23

VIDEO
Part 2 of this series.

Brahman is the World, Part 1

Tue, 4 May 2010 17:23:10

VIDEO
A plain english translation of Shankara's quote: The world is an illusion. Only Brahman is real. Brahman is the world.

Mike Thielmann, March 2010 Part 2

Mon, 3 May 2010 19:23:12

Part 2 of this straight talk with Mike

Michael Thielmann, March 2010 Part 1

Mon, 3 May 2010 19:21:20

Another great talk with Mike. Enjoy!

One Love, Musical Version of the Linchitz Kilologue

Fri, 23 Apr 2010 18:05:09

Here a friend, JD, put parts of my KiloLogue with Rick Linchitz over a beat. Enjoy it. It's called "One Love."

Natural Rest Book Reviews

Fri, 23 Apr 2010 16:37:58

Early Reviews here

Everything Drenched in Love

Fri, 23 Apr 2010 06:45:31

In this love, there is no other. There is only love, appearing in every form. And there is a knowing that there aren’t really forms at all. There is only love. So simple, so sweet. Nothing to comprehend. Love just is. It is being whatever it is being in this moment. Nothing is excluded.

Simple Rest

Sun, 11 Apr 2010 19:21:36

Simply rest. Rest whenever it is convenient. Rest whenever possible. This was the doorway to freedom for me. So I’m sharing it with you.

A Final Language

Sun, 11 Apr 2010 09:25:01

There is a possibility then, to start holding your final language more loosely. There is a possibility of not identifying strongly with it. You will still have a final language but it will be held lightly. You will find less conflict. You will find yourself more and more open to other languages and perspectives. The world starts to seem fuller, more alive.

Beyond Safety and Security

Wed, 7 Apr 2010 19:29:55

As a good friend just said, “There was a nondual realization and then I saw that nonduality didn’t outlaw anything else!” What freedom, to see that nonduality is not an arriving point. Life doesn’t end there. It begins in a new way, without the self-seeking.

Greg Goode, Direct Path, Part 4

Sat, 3 Apr 2010 07:43:29

Part 4 of a four part series

Greg Goode, Direct Path, Part 3

Fri, 2 Apr 2010 21:03:34

Part 3 of a four part series.

Greg Goode, Direct Path, Part 2

Thu, 1 Apr 2010 19:22:29

Part 2 of a four part series.

Greg Goode, Direct Path, Part 1

Wed, 31 Mar 2010 18:51:31

Part 1 of a four part series with Greg Goode, where I become his student (along with being the interviewer) so that he can explain the direct path. This is a rich path that leaves no stone unturned!

Absolutizing Viewpoints

Fri, 12 Mar 2010 16:42:38

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Insights are great. Traditions and frameworks within which we talk about spiritual realization are great. Emptiness is an important insight. Awareness is a great pointer. Zen, Advaita, pluralism, etc are all great. And so are apples, dogs, ghosts, rock music and other things. Freedom is no longer absolutizing viewpoints.

All concepts are equal and false?

Wed, 3 Mar 2010 06:38:15

The notion that “all concepts are false” is a concept purporting to be absolutely true, across the board. It is claiming to be the only true concept. So this insight shoots itself in the head in the end...

Non-Separation, Part 2, Living Realization Meeting from February 20, 2010

Sun, 21 Feb 2010 04:32:42

This is part 2 of the Living Realization Meeting on February 20, 2010. It's based on Chapter 11 "Non-Separation" of the Living Realization Text, available at www.living-realization.blogspot.com

Non-Separation Part 1, Living Realization Meeting from February 20, 2010

Sun, 21 Feb 2010 04:29:21

This is part 1 of the Living Realization Meeting on February 20, 2010. It's based on Chapter 11 "Non-Separation" of the Living Realization Text, available at www.living-realization.blogspot.com

An Addict Is An Escape Artist

Mon, 15 Feb 2010 07:56:43

If you are interested in non-dual realization as it applies to addiction, please read this first.

Diane Musho Hamilton, February 2010

Wed, 10 Feb 2010 19:35:33

A wonderful conversation with Diane Musho Hamilton, who is the first successor in Genpo Roshi's Big Mind Process lineage. This dialogue involves the issue of shadows and shadow work. Amazing stuff!

Simply Open

Wed, 10 Feb 2010 06:54:41

When past insights are not being emphasized as beliefs, life has a simple sweetness, love, peace, and compassion.

The Traps of No Self

Mon, 8 Feb 2010 07:47:40

Take a look.

Nonduality In A Nutshell

Sat, 6 Feb 2010 11:02:42

A simple list.

NEW-Nicholas Powiull-December 2009

Mon, 28 Dec 2009 05:47:54

Humble, clear message. Enjoy!

Will I Find Meaning?

Mon, 21 Dec 2009 07:07:36

This answers the question, “Will there be meaning in non-dual realization?” But it answers it from the direct experience of that, not from some future, imagined idea (which would just be the story talking.” Look around you, in your present experience. What has been described here in terms of love, inseparability, spontaneity, freedom, creativity, and aliveness is the meaning you have been seeking and asking about. The shocking news is that it has always been here, right here and now. But in looking for it in the future, it is missed.

Imaginary Gap

Tue, 15 Dec 2009 10:28:07

The imaginary gap between nothing and everything.

Be Present?

Fri, 27 Nov 2009 08:10:16

And so the pointer “be present” is helpful, but only to a certain extent. In fact, trying to be present and shut out past and future can create tension in the head because what you are really trying to do is stop thought. By stopping thought, you get a sense of the fact that there is only “this moment.” Sounds good at first, but isn’t this just another concept? The invitation above to “drop thought and look in a non-conceptual way” is not an invitation to stop thinking permanently. It is not an invitation to forcefully stop your mind. The very fact that effort is being used to “stop the mind” ought to tell you that the separate self, and its personal force of will, are being used. The story is trying to stop the story.

A Day in the Life

Tue, 24 Nov 2009 07:02:21

Some have asked me recently to explain what a day in the life of Scott is like.

Seeing Through The Witness

Wed, 11 Nov 2009 08:11:38

And that’s the freedom. There is no witness. A witness is still fear operating from the sense of a separate entity, one that is afraid of what’s happening, trying to keep some distance from it. It’s very easy to hide in words like “awareness” or "being" or "Oneness" and walk around convincing yourself and others of your certainty. This is all in some attempt to avoid the total uncertainty, vulnerability, and unknowing involved in the kind of freedom being described here. It is much safer to just hang out in the idea that I’m watching everything come and go. When there is seen to be no boundary between that which is watching and what is being watched, between awareness and its content, there is no way to know or control what is going to happen. This means one could die in the next moment or win the lottery. And there is a knowing that, whatever happens, that is what I am. I am what is happening. It’s that simple. No division. No boundary. No desire to change circumstances, people, or things. All is, perfect as it is, just because it is, and I am that.

NEW-Michael Thielmann

Wed, 28 Oct 2009 21:59:08

Michael's blog is www.ididntfinditandneitherwillyou.blogspot.com. Good, clear, refreshing voice!

NEW-Kiloby Meeting, Inseparability Part 2, August 2009

Sun, 30 Aug 2009 05:11:49

Part 2 of the Skype meeting on Inseparability

NEW-Kiloby Meeting, Inseparability Part 1, August 2009

Sat, 29 Aug 2009 17:49:23

This is a recording of a recent meeting where the topic is inseparability. Specifically, we discuss that the appearances of awareness (thoughts, emotions, experiences, states, and events) are inseparable from awareness itself. Stated another way, emptiness is none other than form. Stated yet another way, nothing is being everything. These are not just fancy "enlightened" ideas. This is the key to freedom and fullness. The great news is that this recognition is available right here, right now in your present experience.

NEW-Timothy Freke, August 2009

Sat, 29 Aug 2009 10:13:02

Tim's message, although delivered somewhat differently, resonates very much with mine. Non-dual realization that includes the realm of duality. That is love. Great stuff! For those with a Christian background, Tim's discussion of Gnostic Christianity may resolve a few issues.

The Collapse

Mon, 17 Aug 2009 07:28:16

It doesn’t matter ultimately whether thinking is arising or not arising or whether there is sound or not. In every moment, there is only awareness and whatever is appearing in awareness. And because awareness is not a thing, but rather the cognizing empty space itself, then the line between awareness and that which appears in awareness is not real. There is no line.

NEW-Energy

Sat, 8 Aug 2009 18:34:06

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Energy is appearing as everything, including seeking. This is about letting everything be as it is, even the thought that arises that says it should be different.

Rick Linchitz, August 2009

Sat, 8 Aug 2009 15:02:36

Rick is certainly one of my favorite KiloLogues thus far. Enjoy!

NEW-Jeff Saltzman, Boulder Integral, Part 3

Wed, 5 Aug 2009 18:23:23

"Nobody ever has any truth, just various degrees of falsehood." Ken Wilber. Shockingly, even nondual realization is only a partial view.

In this talk, Jeff Saltzman and Scott talk about Integral Theory as it pertains to states. Jeff and Scott discuss how causal emptiness is different from nonduality. Jeff explains that integral seems to really come online with the capacity to integrate views. At certain stages of our lives, we really believe that only our single view or interpretation or state is correct. In realizing causal emptiness, that seems to be an arriving point. The conceptual world falls away. The mountains vanish. But as they say in Zen, "the mountains return," but they are seen to be none other than your Self. And so the whole world comes alive at Integral: "Brahman is the world."

At integral, paradoxes are held. One no longer clings to only one view including the view that non-conceptual emptiness is the only view or that non-duality is some kind of end point. As emptiness is seen as none other than form, as the appearances are seen as not independent of awareness, there is the possibility of not clinging to any single form, or single view. This is a discovery of the world you thought you knew, but that now looks very different. At integral, every view is included. It is no longer about "only my view is true," the question becomes, "What else is true?"

Rest in Relationship, Part 3

Tue, 4 Aug 2009 18:47:08

Is it possible that the others you are fighting are shadows of your own story?

Rest in Relationship, Part 2

Tue, 4 Aug 2009 18:42:47

In being able to take the perspective of another, rather than merely saying there is no other, unconditional love becomes more than just lip service.

Rest in Relationship, Part 1

Tue, 4 Aug 2009 18:40:19

Scott talking about rest in relationship. This is a three part series. This is what your spiritual teacher may not tell you (because she doesn't know).

Richard Miller, August 2009

Sat, 1 Aug 2009 16:53:21

Richard is the founder of Integrative Restoration Institute which is an umbrella organization for the Center of Timeless Being and IRest. With forty years of experience teaching, Richard has a mature expression and a solid handle on the practical value of awareness as well as the trap of not putting the experiential aspect of awareness first.

The Lie of Obscuration (Kilobit)

Fri, 31 Jul 2009 06:16:20

This is not an interview. This is a twenty minute audio of Scott addressing the lie that anything could actually obscure awareness. He points to the fact that direct experience shows that nothing actually obscures our true identity as awareness. Everything--every thought, emotion, state, and experience--actually proves that our true identity is awareness.

Perfect Seamlessness

Mon, 27 Jul 2009 07:07:52

Life is perfect seamlessness. The real treasure of awareness is seeing that thoughts, emotions, states, and experiences seamlessly, dynamically, and naturally bleed into one other so much so that the dividing line between them is seen as not real. Thinking will tell you that the experience of eating cake is a separate and distinct act from thinking about drag racing. But direct experience reveals that there is a seamless flow. Basic awareness appears seamlessly as eating cake and then thinking about drag racing. Only thought divides those up into discrete things. The real beauty is that the thought that divides those things up also seamlessly appears from basic awareness. And the beauty beyond that is that there is a seamlessness even between awareness and the appearances of awareness, between awareness and thinking, between awareness and eating cake, between awareness and thinking about awareness, and between awareness and thinking about eating cake. It sounds complicated until you rely on direct experience. At that point, it is simply the truth.

Jackie O'Keeffe, July 2009

Sat, 25 Jul 2009 11:34:17

Jackie and Scott discuss ghosts, why God as a belief doesn't cut it, the silence from which everything comes, and life without the personal "I." See Jackie's site at www.jackieokeeffe.com.

Unmani July 2009, Part 2

Fri, 24 Jul 2009 20:30:34

Scott's discussion with Unmani, continued...

NEW-Unmani July 2009, Part 1

Mon, 20 Jul 2009 19:39:02

Part one of a two part series. Unmani takes you straight into the loving mystery of not-knowing only to find that you were already there. Her site is www.not-knowing.com.

Don't Miss One Half of Spirit

Mon, 20 Jul 2009 18:12:19

Once there is a knowing that what you are, in the deepest sense, is this contentless awareness, enjoy the content. Once you know that your true identity is the ocean, let the waves play. Let them tumble over each other. Get soaking wet in the play of life. Enjoy the difference between the waves. Each one is unique. You, the individual body, mind, and personality, are none other than the awareness. Enjoy your uniqueness. I'm not referring to ego. Ego is that contracted energy, that time-bound, thought-based story that fixates in self-centered thinking. Once awareness is recognized as your real identity, the ego is seen as a phantom. What I'm referring to here is the vast freedom inherent in awareness and the fact that every form is a perfect, inseparable, unique expression of that awareness. Enjoy it all!

Jeff Saltzman, Boulder Integral, Part 1

Sat, 18 Jul 2009 19:24:29

This is, quite frankly, the clearest explanation of Integral Spirituality I've heard. Listen with an open mind.

Jeff Saltzman, Boulder Integral, Part 2

Sat, 18 Jul 2009 19:14:57

In this last, short part, Jeff and Scott discuss how nondual realization relates to Integral.

Rabbi Marc Gafni, July 2009 Part 1

Sat, 18 Jul 2009 18:57:23

This is the first in a series with Rabbi Marc Gafni. Marc states that emptiness or pure awareness does not evolve. It is eternal and unchanging. Marc states that form does evolve (i.e., evolution being the capacity to take more perspectives rather than being identified only with one perspective). Self-realization is interpreted differently in different cultures and contexts yet there is a universal awareness in which those perspectives appear. Marc points directly to this larger field of perspectives and how Integral emerges as this seeing. When the "I" is no longer identified only with its perspective, whether that is a Christian, Buddhist, Advaita, Democratic, or some other perspective, and these perspectives become objects appearing in this "I" awareness, that is evolution. Stay tuned for later discussions with Marc. Marc and Scott will talk about one of the greatest contributions of post-modern philosophy: The myth of the given. The myth of the given calls into question all of the truth claims made throughout history as well as the validity of some modern spiritual interpretive frameworks.

Everyday Awareness

Sun, 12 Jul 2009 05:44:50

VIDEO
This is the simplest thing, so simple that a concept can never grasp it. What you are is the awake space that is looking now. The content of awareness is not what you are. Therefore, the constant looking back into past to measure whether you are better or more at peace now than you were back then just strengthens ego. And projecting forward to a time when you believe you will be freer or more at peace does the same. This measuring back and projecting forward is the content of awareness. It is the time-bound, thought-based false self. What is being pointed to here is the awareness in which content arises. That awareness is what you really are. In that recognition, all personal seeking and suffering ends. Nothing is carried over in time. Everything is allowed to be just as it is, right now. This is total and complete acceptance and love of what is.

Paul Hedderman, Selfing

Tue, 7 Jul 2009 20:40:03

Paul Hedderman's site is zenbitchslap.com. A truly unique and clear voice on the topic of how the recognition of 'no self' impacts addiction and recovery. Paul's explanation of 'selfing' is great. Listen and enjoy! See if there is a 'dawning.'

Meeting Your Guru Everywhere

Tue, 30 Jun 2009 14:09:24

To be open means to meet your guru everywhere. Your guru is not just within you. It is not just the pure awareness that you have found to be your true nature. It is not just in the spiritual insights that you experience, hold in memory or read about in books. It is not just your favorite spiritual writer, teacher, or lineage. It is also your enemy. It is the one who disagrees with you, the one that pisses you off. It is the person who is trying to teach you something while you remain closed to what he or she is saying. It is everything and everyone. Don't miss this by claiming "there are no people." Although it is true that separation is unreal, the moment that is turned into a belief, it is no longer true. It is merely belief. Beliefs have to be defended because they are not absolutely true. In defending any belief, learning and listening stop.

Peter Dziuban, June 2009, Part 2

Sun, 28 Jun 2009 16:25:28

Part 2 of a two part series

Peter Dziuban, June 2009, Part 1

Sun, 28 Jun 2009 15:29:03

Part 1 of a two part series. Peter is the author of "Consciousness is All." Good and clear pointing to timeless ISness. Peter's pointing challenges the notion that anything "not here now" exists at all.

Jeff Foster, June 2009, Part 2

Sat, 27 Jun 2009 23:00:07

Part 2 of the two part series.

Jeff Foster, June 2009, Part 1

Sat, 27 Jun 2009 22:00:44

In this two part audio, Jeff and Scott discuss Jeff's new book, "An Extraordinary Absence: Liberation in the Midst of a Very Ordinary Life." They reach into virtually every topic imaginable from the limitations of modern non-dual jargon, to "no self" as the new religion, to the nitty-gritty moment by moment way that non-duality really is (beyond the ideas we use to point to it), to excruciating physical pain, illness, and death, to washing testicles, to seeing that love has no point of reference and is appearing as every point of reference, to no longer even knowing that 'this' is about non-duality. Scott highly recommends Jeff's new book

Susan Kahn, Non-Dual Therapist, June 2009

Thu, 25 Jun 2009 21:06:23

Her sites are www.whoamitherapy.com and www.nondualpoetry.com. Susan's approach has the unique capacity to meet 'you' where you are in the story, allowing you to question that story with the mind itself, and to eventually see that the story is unreal.

Direct Pointing

Thu, 25 Jun 2009 10:51:56

VIDEO
Direct pointing to non-duality

Gary Crowley, March 2009

Thu, 25 Jun 2009 06:41:58

Gary's site is garycrowley.com. His book is "From Here to Here: Turning Toward Enlightenment." Gary relentlessly points to the fact that there is no choice.

Rupert Spira, March 2008

Thu, 25 Jun 2009 06:25:21

Rupert's site is rupertspira.com. Rupert is one of the clearest at pointing the mind out of the notion of separateness, revealing the consciousness that is our true identity.

This

Wed, 24 Jun 2009 20:52:15

VIDEO

Scott's Appearance on Never Not Here with Richard Miller

Tue, 23 Jun 2009 21:32:32

VIDEO
NEW--Never Not Here is an online show that interviews teachers and authors in the area of non-duality. This is the interview of Scott in May 2009 by Richard Miller. Visit www.nevernothere.com

One

Tue, 23 Jun 2009 20:58:44

VIDEO
Self-explanatory

Living Realization Meeting, May 2009

Tue, 23 Jun 2009 15:34:50

This is a recording of a Living Realization skype meeting. To read the Living Realization text, visit the Writings page. To attend meetings, visit the Meetings page or contact Livingrealization@hotmail.com

Being

Tue, 23 Jun 2009 10:23:40

VIDEO
The word being is such a great pointer. Let's move beyond the word into what it is pointing to. That is where the freedom is.

Life Living Itself

Tue, 23 Jun 2009 10:23:04

VIDEO
This is an invitation to discover what is at the heart of all non-dual teachings, the realization that you are not a person living life with choice and control. Life is living itself through you freely, lovingly, and spontaneously. This is liberation.

Dimitri Halley, February 2009

Mon, 22 Jun 2009 12:36:01

Dimitri's site is dimitrihalley.com.

John Astin, October 2008

Mon, 22 Jun 2009 11:56:15

This discussion with John hits on the big issues of identity, form v. formlessness, points of view and how they relate to the separate self sense, and many other issues. John's site is integrativearts.com. His blog is "Out Beyond Ideas" which is accessible through that site.

John Taylor, September 2008

Mon, 22 Jun 2009 11:35:19

choosetobefree.com

Ariel Bravy, April 2009

Mon, 22 Jun 2009 10:52:00

Ariel's site is youaretrulyloved.com. His pointing is refreshingly free of dogma and fundamentalism. His site contains a wide variety of ways of pointing to 'this.' It's a really full expression.

Jim Dreaver, September 2008

Mon, 22 Jun 2009 10:22:26

Jimdreaver.com. Jim wrote a book called, "End Your Story, Begin Your Life." That is a great pointer. He has authored several other books also including the recent one, "Falling Into Light."

Joan Tollifson, March 2009

Mon, 22 Jun 2009 10:12:14

See joantollifson.com. This quote from Joan's site says it all: "You know that you (as presence-awareness) are here, that something is happening. The bare actuality of being here is undeniable and impossible to doubt, needing no proof or belief. This presence (or emptiness) is the water in every wave. It cannot be grasped or possessed, and yet, it is always right here, unavoidable and thus unattainable. This is the jewel, and this jewel is showing up as absolutely everything."

Mokshananda, February 2009

Mon, 22 Jun 2009 09:43:37

Mokie's site is freewatersangha.com. Mokshananda ("Joe Sousa") lives in Santa Cruz, CA, where, in addition to his psychotherapy practice, he offers Satsang, intensives, retreats and Dokusan (private spiritual counseling). He also travels the western United States and Canada offering Satsang and intensives and teachings. In 1999, he was invited to teach by Adyashanti. In 2008, Ken Wilber invited Mokshananda to teach as part of Integral Institute's Integral Spiritual Center. This discussion talks about Integral Theory among other things. When there is an openness to the Integral framework, the entire universe begins to look different and feel very rich.

Stanley Sobottka, April 2009

Mon, 22 Jun 2009 09:24:48

Stanley's site is faculty.virginia.edu/consciousness

Ameeta, February 2009

Mon, 22 Jun 2009 09:00:26

Ameeta's site is miraszblog.blogspot.com

Mary McGovern, 2008

Sun, 21 Jun 2009 18:23:34

graceisnow.blogspot.com

KiloLogue with John Dupuy, Integral Recovery, Part 4

Thu, 18 Jun 2009 21:17:15

In Part 4, John, Scott, and Rob discuss shadow material and what a day in the life of integral recovery looks like.

KiloLogue with John Dupuy, Integral Recovery, Part 3

Thu, 18 Jun 2009 21:09:36

In Part 3, John, Scott, and Rob discuss levels such as egocentric, ethnocentric, worldcentric, and Kosmoscentric, as well as states including emptiness and non-dual realization. In the end, they discuss shadows.

KiloLogue with John Dupuy, Integral Recovery, Part 2

Thu, 18 Jun 2009 17:34:42

In this second part of the four part series, John, Scott, and Rob discuss lines of development such as emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual as well as awakening to our true nature and its affect on the lives of addicts. At the end, John, Scott, and Rob discuss stages such as egocentric, ethnocentric, world-centric, and Kosmo-centric.

KiloLogue with John Dupuy, Integral Recovery, Part 1

Thu, 18 Jun 2009 17:06:13

This is the first segment in a four part series. John Dupuy is the founder of an amazing program called Integral Recovery at www.integralrecovery.com, modeled after Ken Wilber's Integral Theory.

Rob McNamara is also involved in the conversation. Rob has contributed to the Integral movement over the past 8 years as a leading integral practitioner. Rob has worked with Ken Wilber and the Integral Institute, served as one of the core faculty for the Integral Life Practice seminars, contributed to Integral Life, taught at Boulder Integral and is an Integral Coach for iEvolve. Rob’s area of expertise is the intersection of integral practice, human performance and integral strength training.

Scott endorses Integral Recovery as it includes total overall spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical health for the recovering addict. In this first part, John and Scott discuss integral theory as applied to addiction, mainly the four quadrants.

KiloLogue with John Astin

Thu, 18 Jun 2009 14:37:27

John and Scott discuss non-dual realization and how it affects addiction and recovery. The recognition of awareness is the end of the seeker.

Awareness Part 2

Thu, 18 Jun 2009 14:23:46

VIDEO
This is a continuation of the pointing in Awareness Part 1.

Awareness Part 1

Thu, 18 Jun 2009 14:23:32

VIDEO
Scott uses a white sheet of paper with dots on it to illustrate why suffering, seeking, and conflict happen. The white page represents your primary identity as unmoving, unchanging non-dual awareness. The dots represents the forms that appear and disappear from awareness including thoughts, emotions, states, and experiences. Suffering, seeking, and conflict result from an identity crisis, from awareness identifying with the temporary dots (forms) that appear and disappear.

Simple Presence Part 2

Thu, 18 Jun 2009 14:23:14

VIDEO
This is a continuation of the pointing in Simple Presence Part 1

Simple Presence Part 1

Thu, 18 Jun 2009 14:23:00

VIDEO
Scott simplifying and demystifying the subject of non-duality (i.e., enlightenment).

Seeking Energy

Thu, 18 Jun 2009 14:22:47

VIDEO
What are you looking for in the spiritual search? Is it possible that whatever you are looking for, it is already here? In this video, Scott points 'the mind' out of its spiritual search in time, to the recognition of the timeless presence that is already here and already whole. That presence is your true identity.

Feeling Emotions Directly

Thu, 18 Jun 2009 14:22:24

VIDEO
Enlightenment is not about just seeing through a thought-based false self. Identification with emotions fuel that self. Awareness is appearing not just as thought but also emotion. This points to recognizing the awareness that is prior to, surrounds, and permeates each emotion. You aren't angry or an angry person. That is a story. Anger is a raw energy arising in what you are. The difference is critical.

Awareness and Thought: NOT TWO

Thu, 18 Jun 2009 10:39:03

Form is not other than formlessness and formlessness is not other than form, as the Buddhist Sutra says. Thought does not have an existence that is independent of awareness. Sound does not have an existence independent of silence. In reality, there are not two here. Enlightenment is merely pointing to reality itself. Denying thought (form) is denying awareness itself. To deny thought is to make an assumption that is not based in reality. The assumption is that you can split off a part of reality from another part of reality.

Basics Part 2

Wed, 17 Jun 2009 23:47:21

VIDEO
This is a continuation of the pointing in Basics Part 1.

Jeff Foster, October 2008

Wed, 17 Jun 2009 23:22:26

Jeff's site is www.lifewithoutacentre.com

Katie Davis, November 2008

Wed, 17 Jun 2009 23:20:30

www.KatieDavis.org

Reviews for Love's Quiet Revolution

Wed, 17 Jun 2009 17:54:37

Reviews for Reflections of the One Life

Wed, 17 Jun 2009 17:54:36

Mandi Solk, October 2008

Wed, 17 Jun 2009 00:00:00

Visit Mandi's sites at www.mandisolk.com and non-duality-north.com

Basics Part 1

Tue, 16 Jun 2009 00:00:00

VIDEO
This video is a very basic and straightforward pointing to seeing through the illusory thought-based self, sometimes called "ego." It gives a description of what presence is in relation to that false self.